If you could choose, would you have 1 cuddle partner or more than 1 ? 🧸

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Different people have different things to offer .... some may be great talkers / other great listeners / others great cuddles / list goes on .... what will you choose, 1 that checks all boxes or multiple where everyone is unique and has something different to offer?

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  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Ooof for purely platonic cuddles?
    I'm going to have to go with more than one,i f I found the PERFECT cuddle mate there's just no way I wouldn't fall hard. we would be far too compatible in too many areas. Damned that's a depressing realization.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    ^!!!! Sooo true I definitely agree @NightShift39

  • ChibiShemaChibiShema

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  • ChibiShemaChibiShema

    I am now understanding that I came to this site with completely the wrong idea. In my marriage, there was not a lot of physical touch. The one thing I really craved was cuddling. I thought by finding like-minded folk, who like to cuddle that I would have an opportunity to meet someone to possibly date. I understand now that I am breaking the rules with the secret desire in my heart. I just don’t know how to be sure ahead of time that someone will like cuddling as much as me. My wife said she liked cuddling, until about a year into our marriage. And then there was a decade of not cuddling. I don’t wanna get in trouble, and I don’t want to be banned. But I do want to be honest. Is there a place for people like me? People who want to meet like-minded people. I don’t know how to figure out who likes to cuddle and who doesn’t on dating apps. People say one thing and then they do another. But I figured if people made the commitment to sign up for a cuddle website that was platonic, that they were committed to cuddling. The more I get involved in these discussions, the more sadness I feel. I was so hopeful at the beginning that I would find A nice lady who wanted to be snuggled up all night. I’ll apologize to the members and to the staff and to the owner. I just wanted to speak my truth. Is there any place for people like me? We want things to be platonic and cuddly until we find the right person. Relationships are just so hard.

  • [Deleted User]Gatomon (deleted user)

    2, a guy and a girl. ♡

  • cricket26cricket26

    Multiple!

    If i’m being totally honest, I’ve always dreamed of having a handful of close friends who were comfortable with platonic affection. Where just hanging out watching Netflix together turns into a “cuddle puddle” situation.

    I think it would keep things more platonic and lighthearted too!

  • xeldaxelda

    @ChibiShema It takes a lot of courage and insight to come to your truth like that. By coming here, you've learned something about yourself, what you're looking for, and maybe how to ask for it in your next relationship. This might not be the right site for you, but I do believe you're taking a gift with you.

    To answer the OP's question: definitely multiple cuddle partners.

  • [Deleted User]APV (deleted user)

    I do like the idea of having just one cuddle partner. I listen to plenty of monogamous love songs with zero sexual references in their lyrics. I do thoroughly review and analyze the lyrics before deeming them fitting to direct at a cuddle partner.

    I just want my only cuddle partner to whom I’m loyal to be an enthusiast. The way my job is going right now makes me worry I’ll find myself in between jobs for months plural in the second half of 2021. Whenever I’m in between jobs for two months or more I can’t pay a penny for a personal service like hiring a pro.

  • BotWithFeelingsBotWithFeelings

    @ChibiShema As long as you're not treating this like a dating site I don't think you are necessarily breaking the site rules. If you want to meet a dancer go dancing, if you want to meet a cuddler go cuddling? I saw in a another thread that two enthusiasts went to cuddle and hit it off so well that they got married. And honestly, the descriptions of many of the cuddling relationships on this site seem a bit to close to romantic for my taste. Granted, if you are using this a dating site then you should stop. Also, the demographics are super skewed, you'll have way, way better luck on dating sites anyway.
    Cuddling is incredibly important for me romantic relationships too so, I completely empathize with your situation. There's no guarantee that you will find someone who loves cuddling anywhere not even here, Sometimes people just don't know what they want.

    Others correct me if i am wrong.

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    I grew up in a huge family. On movie nights, all twelve of us would pile onto the couch to watch in what was essentially a giant cuddle heap. I liked that, and missed it when I started living on my own.

    At the moment I've only got the one cuddle buddy, and he's great, don't get me wrong—but sometimes I miss my siblings. Multi-person cuddles are nice.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Oh gods yes, there's just something about cuddle puddles :) mmmmm cozy

  • HUGGGGGGHUGGGGGG

    Three ... one cuddler at a time though ...

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited December 2020

    @ChibiShema I know it can be a little confusing and I appreciate you sharing. This isn't a date site , but there are still a lot of people who are here for.viarious reasons. And like @lonelybutmaybe said, some of it does def come off as a bit romantic-ish . Just read the cuddle fiction threads. Only thing they lack is a Fabio cover . But for the most part , a good deal are here to find platonic cuddles.and keep it as that, not.really looking.for something to potentially develop into anything more than a friendship. Seems like you are figuring things out for yourself. Good luck, just try to not over think it . Have fun participating in the forums and try reaching out to some folks to chat, even if they are not potential cuddle friends . Good luck

  • littermatelittermate

    I would like 5 perfect cuddle partners who all piled under, on top of, and around me so that not one square inch of me was touching anything but another body.

    Until that happens, I'd settle for a really good regular cuddle pal with an occasional passing-through traveler for variety.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Omg that sounds Divine @littermate !!!

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    @littermate "...I'd settle for a really good regular cuddle pal with an occasional passing-through traveler for variety."

    Yeeeessss!!! Exactly! Though just last night I mentioned how nice it would be to have a pod of pre-approved cuddlers, and I could just reach my hand up and smoosh a button on my headboard, sending them the "alert ~ cuddles wanted" and whoever was available/down would answer the call and come slide in next to me.

    Pretty much making me realize I have a lot of high maintenence/princess wishes revolving around not having to leave my bed... lol

  • ScrantonCuddlerScrantonCuddler

    I’d be perfectly fine with just one cuddle partner. Especially considering I have yet to meet anyone.

  • littermatelittermate

    @NightShift39 maybe a few of you guys will do it for me for my birthday some year?

    @quixotic_life hahaha. Cuddle-alarm-button. I'm going into my mad laboratory to get to work on it.

  • [Deleted User]kay750 (deleted user)

    Purely non sexual...I could see myself wanting to cuddle with a couple. But I haven’t cuddled with a single person yet
    Lol

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles
    edited December 2020

    @littermate it could be arranged I suppose.
    I'd be down at any rate.
    LOVE your profile btw 🥰💗

  • littermatelittermate

    Awesome @NightShift39, that's one down, 4 to go! I'll have cake for everyone.
    Thanks! :)

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @littermate hey as long as you have cuddles I'm fine if the cake is a lie. lmao

  • littermatelittermate

    hahaha! not sure i'll be cuddling in february given covid, but hey.... are there 5 cuddle men on here who would travel to my house on my birthday to make a Where the Wild Things Are monster pile? Sounds like heaven to me cake or no cake in a covid-less season.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @littermate ...count this buckeye in.....and you are closer now too! :)

  • littermatelittermate

    I'm grinning big @OhioMike! Let's all get vaccinated quick!

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    @littermate ..I'm with you! :+1:

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    I get tested weekly for work so I'll know if I'm good lol

  • littermatelittermate

    Nice.

  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    @littermate just need 3 more now lol

  • FelineCuddlesFelineCuddles

    As a former art teacher 👩🏼‍🎤 BQ (before quarantine) who loved co-creating artfull space with each of my students and admiring their progress,
    As a world-traveler 🌎 who is always curious to learn and grow
    and
    As a fair CC pro-newbie 🧜🏻‍♀️,
    I can surely state that I prefer creating unique ✨cuddling experience with each of my CC snuggle bears 🐻

    During these dark times, I feel so blessed with a hand-full of carefully selected patrons-of-the-cuddling-arts that I am so grateful for 🙏

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