What was your absolute best cuddle experience ever , what made it the best & most memorable : )
I had a friend who was pretty touch-averse when we first met. When I hugged him for the first time, a couple years into knowing him, I got the distinct impression that I held on for longer than he would've liked XD
I tend to hug like it's the last time I'm ever gonna see the person, just in case ~
I can't remember HOW it came about, but one day we were talking and I asked him if he wanted to be held.
When I first put my arms around him, he went really still, so I checked in to make sure he was okay with what was happening. We were quiet and just kinda stayed there for a while not staying anything.
Then there was this moment where he finally relaxed into it and wrapped his arms around me. We talked about a lot of things.
There was a noticeable shift from then on. He was more open with me after that. So I guess what made it memorable is just that element of being trusted. It's a really precious thing.
I tend to hug like it's the last time I'm ever gonna see the person, just in case ~ @EarthlyAngel003
This is me all the way, thank you for sharing! 🌌 : )
I'm not sure if I can think of a "best" cuddle experience (and I don't really think it would be fair to the people I've cuddled with to name a best experience), but for a random memorable cuddle experience - When I was 13, I was visiting some family in another state, and was staying with an uncle & aunt & a couple cousins (their children). One of my cousins is my age, and sometimes we would cuddle when I was there. I hadn't been around family or friends who liked to cuddle like that before, and the only other times I've been around someone to cuddle was when I was in a relationship or when I've met up with people from this site for platonic cuddling.
The one(s) where I was able to fully let go and had an almost out of body experience ~ euphoric bliss from being completely present with another being while wrapped around and squishing on each other... Amazing!!
I think that is not a good question, I would say not to mention any names !!!. I can see some hurt feelings come out of that question. People DO look at profiles and read the feedback/karma. I think if worded "What makes a great cuddle", would be a lot better. I have been asked about about a cuddle session with a person after the person asking looked at my profile and said I see you had a cuddle with SO-IN-SO. I would never say anything other then yes and it was a nice cuddle. And I make it a point to never talk about any cuddle sessions to anyone, as I see it as a very private thing.
Yeah @waynewv i wasn’t hoping for anyone to share the persons name, it didn’t even have to be someone in cc, just the experience in itself but I can see exactly how this post could be interpreted that way & a better way to have word it would be exactly like you suggested , “what makes a great cuddle” ... I don’t think threads can be deleted once they’re posted? Either way thanks for the suggestion.
@introvme , thanks for understanding, I was afraid it would taken wrong.
Hmmm the pixie raver at a desert rave outside of Mesa. She was pretty out of it and ended up sleeping it off in my arms after she passed out, was kinda weird but I figured better me than a less savory individual, she was embarrassed and grateful when she woke up and we had a lovely breakfast and promptly never saw eachother again. The cuddle itself wasn't stellar but it was certainly a memorable event.
I wouldn’t say about any CC cuddles because someone’s feelings will get hurt. A lot of the people i have cuddled with are still on CC! But a unique one was when i was 20 and living and working in Virginia Beach on summer break. Went out with friends and a couple of people i didn’t know. One of those strangers was a pretty Latina. We all hung out for an hour and she met me out in the hall as i was coming out of the restaurant (remember Chi-Chi’s?) bathroom. She asked if we could get out of there. I asked if she wanted a ride home and she said no, she wanted to go to the beach.
Being a beach bum, i had blankets in the car for the beach. I knew an isolated spot and we staked the blanket there. She leaned over and gave me a couple of pecks on the cheek and said, “i want you to hold me tonight if you have time.” Long story short, we fell asleep in each others arms until the next morning around 4:30 AM when beach patrol came along. They spotlighted us and said to get our clothes on. We shouted that we were clothed. Then through the speaker in their car they told us to stand up and we complied. The officer asked if her name was Malina XXXXX. She said she was. She had been reported to the police by her dad because she was suicidal. As she began to walk off she squeezed my hand, winked, and said “I am ok now.”
We dated a bit after that but she was at school at Georgetown and i was at William and Mary. But she was ok and is now a successful Child Services lawyer. I hope she is mentally ok. The reason she was suicidal is that night was the two year anniversary of her mother’s suicide.
My best are any that haven’t resulted in fielding sexual advances from men who have committed to not use this site to solicit sex.
@FunCartel that was a really neat experience!! I have fond memories of Virginia Beach (was around that area for a few years) & we would hit the strip all the time .... the memories! Great times !!
@introvme Ahhh, the strip. Us locals would go people watching and laugh at the Jersey and NYC people that were obvious where they were from. (I know you are from NYC, but its the truth!)
I had a very good friend who did t-shirt airbrushing for $50 a pop on the strip. The t-shirts cost him 4 bucks (in the 80s).
@FunCartel oh great!! nice to know I was being laughed at the whole time 🤦♂️😅😂 ... I’m actually doing a road trip in about 2 weeks (give or take) to Florida... we’re gonna stop in several states & I’m really tempted to head over the Chesapeake bay bridge & head towards the strip, but I remember that in this time of the year (middle of winter) it would be completely dead from one end to the other , but in the plus side all those hotels become very cheap & offer rock bottom prices ,, last time I was there was about 14 years ago now & I wonder how its changed since than.
@TheMidnightOwl i was thinking to myself , “i know her but don’t recognize the name & than I put 2 & 2 together (really cool name : ) I hope that every single guy gets to read your comment & reconsiders making such advances.