I had a very interesting conversation with a friend yesterday. She had been contacted by a guy who was from out of state and was looking for a cuddle. Because of the way things are locked down here in MI, she went ahead and scheduled the cuddle with him. She went twice. Here's the bad part.... the first night she went, everything was fine. They discussed how each of them would dress for the cuddle and all was good. The next night, she asked if he would be ok with her not wearing a bra this time as it isn't very comfortable for her to keep it on due to her size. He had no issue with that, so that night, when she changed for the cuddle, she got into her t-shirt and shorts and joined him. It didn't take him long to start groping her. She asked him to stop because that is NOT why she is there. He continued, so she got up and threatened to report him. His response was that he travels all the time and cuddles all over the country. He didn't care if she reported him because he would just delete his profile and make another one.
There is a lot more to the story here, but I'm hoping everyone get's the general just of things. So now I'm left wondering how often this type of thing happens. Is there any way women can protect themselves from predatory men like this? Is there something the moderatos can to to make it more difficult for these men to just delete an account and sign up again?
I'm asking this because there are so many men on here who are genuinely looking for nothing more than a platonic cuddle buddy. Predators like that are what makes it so difficult for us to find one. There are literally 1-15 men on this site for every woman that is here. I would just like to find a safe way so things like this don't keep happening to the women who choose to join the site.