Guys this is my last post on the thread , I will no longer post but I’ll reply to threads that 📝

cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
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That are posted or have been created in the past ... I guess someone or some people have been complaining about non- related postings to the cuddling community ... just know that if ive done any post it has been in good fun and to get everyone engaged & pass the time / escape from the real world, so as annoyed as I am by it I apologize if I offended anyone with any of my posts.

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  • LyleLuvsHugglesLyleLuvsHuggles

    Awww but I'll miss the posts, they amused us :(

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Thank you @NightShift39 & thanks for always participating 🙏 👊🏼

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    @introvme
    Meh... don't let the haters get you down. The fact is, you can please some people sometimes, but you can't please all the people all the time.

    I'd thought, "Holy smokes, that's a lot of posts!" But yay for you for somehow getting a mess of people to step outside their "reader only" role to leave a comment!

    Moving forward though, maybe (if appealing to you) you could just aim to strike a balance between many and none? Like one to a few here and there... instead of all at once... 🤷‍♀️ IDK ~ But going to zero seems a bit extreme...

    (((Hugs)))

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Thanks @quixotic_life **hugggzzz***!!!

  • FlyingToasterFlyingToaster

    I don't see how any of your posts could have been offensive. My checking the forums here has been a bit spotty sometimes, but do some people really feel like we should only talk about cuddle-related topics here? There is a "General" category in the forums, which I'd think would mean pretty much any topic. I'd think we should feel free to talk about anything, which would at least help get to know people here a bit and maybe help make some connections too.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @FlyingToaster thank you so much for that, I share the same sentiment 100%

  • [Deleted User]Mmart (deleted user)

    @introvme I have enjoyed your posts even those that didn't interest me so much. Keep a smile on your face.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @Mmart 🍻 👊🏼

  • sunnysideupsunnysideup

    I've enjoyed the posts, @quixotic_life makes sense with her post.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited December 2020

    @introvme Please don’t stop your threads. They are a breath of fresh air that are quite innocuous and fun as opposed to all the “nothing but good vibes” nonsense that while well intentioned, produce artificial joy that makes one feel dreary by the monotony from the emojis and hearts flowing out, which I believe is not the desired result. If they are muzzling you who has not offended anyone then this is a sad day for this site.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited December 2020

    You seem well intentioned. This is my observation and opinion . While I do find it is nice to have a balance of site related vs non site related threads , the sheer volume by which you post makes it very imbalanced as majority of your threads are off the top of your head thoughts. I mean you even made a thread about taking a break from starting threads. As @FunCartel says it is rather innocuous, however it ends up burying the other threads because you start so many at once, and sometimes they are threads that are on topics that already exist in current threads. It creates clutter. I dont know what was said to you and who said what etc , but that is my honest take on it . It can really seem a little impulsive, not to mention spammy

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @FunCartel Thank you soo much!! Especially coming from you, who I have much respect & really consider a very wise person in several aspects/ ways & your humor is on point, I’m forever catching it , & when you want to send a message you do so very well!!

    @pmvines same as FunCartel I have much respect for you too & consider you one of the very smart & wise as well ... I knew if anybody would not let me down easy it would be you lol but its ok because I agree with everything you said!

  • FlyingToasterFlyingToaster
    edited December 2020

    One thing honestly is that when you post photos, they almost always have black bars at the top & bottom, requiring one to scroll down to see the actual photo.. I feel like I have to do a lot of scrolling for those posts. Would be good to post photos without all the empty black space in them.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    @introvme don't be a damn fool. You're an asset to this community and if you leave I'll cut your balls off with a blunt penknife. You've contributed a lot to livening up this place.

    Your initial enthusiasm for this forum has been wonderful. However, it is slightly exhausting sometimes. I want to see new threads from you, and I'd also like to see a side of you that is a little more thoughtful and a little less frenetic. Really it's selfishness on my part - you have a lot more to offer, and I want to benefit from it.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    Jeez @CuddleDuncan ~ That's a bit extreme & with a "blunt penknife"? Yikes!

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    I omitted 'rusty'. 😆😆😆

  • SFsnugglesSFsnuggles

    This is not an airport, you don’t need to announce your departure lol. This post comes off as attention seeking, you don’t need validation. Post or don’t post but ... to post about not posting anymore .. 😂 ok

  • [Deleted User]Lucas_ (deleted user)
    edited December 2020

    @SFsnuggles

    “This is not an airport, you don’t need to announce your departure lol. “

    😂 Best line on this site ever.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @CuddleDuncan 😯😰

    @quixotic_life 😅😂

  • [Deleted User]DrCuddleBug (deleted user)

    @introvme Well, I've got to admire your resourcefulness. Instead of posting new threads, you have gone and revived old, forgotten ones. 😄

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Ty soo much @DrCuddleBug 😃 ive found amazing threads / really cool ones / funny ones / & thoughtful ones , thanks again : )

  • Mike403Mike403
    edited December 2020

    Wait... someone complained about your threads? Some people have nothing better do. The forum would be pretty boring if the only discussion was about cuddling.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    Thank you @Mike403 ! They really did!! I honestly couldn’t believe it, especially knowing that ive done so in the ‘general forum’ & my goal has always been to engage all of us, in good fun, pass the time & overall a nice escape. Me personally if a post doesn’t intrigue me I just move on to the next, but just incase I offended anyone I decided to stop & apologized in this forum, if in fact someone was offended.

  • Mike403Mike403

    @introvme - I'd post more. Screw the haters.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @Mike403 🍻👊🏼 Continue being awesome bro!

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited December 2020

    @introvme nobody said as far as I know for you to stop starting threads. Like I said before and others have said , you kinda were flooding the forums with so many threads that it was burying all the existing ones and yes , nothing at all wrong with non site related content but it was just so much it was almost spammy in a way . You are the one who started a thread saying you aren't starting more threads. That's your choice. If you want to start more threads just dont so at such a frenetic pace and try to not make all of them about silly off the top of your head stuff and I'm sure there wont be the complaints that were previously made about you. I can't really tell at this point if you are just attention seeking but post or dont post if you want to it doesnt matter either way.

  • Mike403Mike403

    @SFsnuggles - I dont even announce my departure at airports.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited December 2020

    @pmvines you already shared your 2 cents prior & I respected it, now you’re trying to insinuate what might of happen & what probably didn’t happen .... you’re not a moderator, you weren’t the one who reached out to me, how can you say what was said & what wasn’t said? “Nobody said as far as I know to stop starting threads” - yes you don’t know & I already shared that someone complained on my behalf because of non-cuddle subjects ... me flooding the threads & burying existing ones is your own personal issue & whoever else might want to make it an issue - again that is not what was brought up to my attention! The fact that you’re even insisting that this might be about attention or not says a lot about you, I made this thread to address whoever was complaining about my non-cuddle related posts , I haven’t made one single thread after this 1 & it isn’t my fault someone gave life to this thread again (funny how you mention “post or don’t post or really doesn’t matter” it clearly does to YOU... Personal attack removed. [-Sid]

  • [Deleted User]DrCuddleBug (deleted user)

    @Mike403 I'm pretty sure SFsnuggles was referencing flights. A kind of play-on-words. 😉

  • Mike403Mike403

    @DrCuddleBug - I dont announce that I'm departing on a flight to anyone. I dont even let the airline know.

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