I am totally on @introvme side. There are far stupider threads that are left wide open to carry on. I liked his threads. Some were goofy, but it was always in the spirit of fun and to get people participating in the forum. It is a shame that admin decided this was the line in the sand.
@FunCartel you are always appreciated!!!
@introvme ~ You have a typo in your rant that made me giggle a little...
"I made this thread to address whoever was complaining about my mom-cuddle related posts..."
Lol! IMO, you can post about cuddling your mom all you want!! 😉
Thanks for pointing it out @quixotic_life ☺️ I thought about leaving it as is for the giggles because I love laughs , but for the record it wasn’t a rant. 😌 Thou shalt not with the profanity. [-Sid]
Oh... well... um... okay then.
But a public "F’k U" seems a little extreme for someone just reiterating/clarifying their opinion. Even if it stings a little... no?
He wasn’t reiterating, he was clearly bothered by the thread coming back to life - which I had no control of / wants to insists the reason why the person complained , which I already stated what was the reason when I did the thread, & it only goes to show that he personally had a problem with my personal threads , never had the courage to say anything or point it out until tgis thread came up ... but still insists what was the problem , you’re a very smart lady I’m sure you know this ... I have zero control of how he feels if he has internalized issues that’s his problems , but he continues to offer that something else was the issue when truly what he’s offering are really his own & being very defensive / pushy / & “in your face” bout it, if you didn’t find any disrespect in his follow up statement than this is a lost discussion honestly 🤷🏻♂️
Okay... I mean his second sentence started with, "Like I said..." so to me that's reiterating. And I just re-read both and they just seem like opinion & constructive criticism with a "take it or leave it 💁" tone.
But knowing others were on your case about it all, I can see how what he wrote may have felt like another blow. I'm not looking to change your mind. I was just was a little taken aback by you saying it was an "F’k U" when you had agreed with him earlier.
Also, since instead of creating new threads, you're now commenting on a mess of old ones, maybe it seemed relevant to clarify the position of posting new things is fine, but to essentially spam the board isn't ~ And to find a balance. 🤷♀️
IDK ~ This is just my take on it. I haven't talked to him so I honestly don't know.
You resurrected the thread on who will win the election and I had to see Trump's face again.
Sorry if you got your feelings hurt. It does seem pointless to argue about to post or not to post. You did after all create this thread so you are inviting responses. Are you only accepting those who give you praise and sympathy ? Anyways instead of just spinning your wheels about it just make a few threads if that's what you want to do rather than dedicating a thread to gripe about it. This is silly
@pmvines's opinion is mine too, @introvme. Yeah, I also think it's fine to have some non-cuddle-related content in the forum, and that there was a little too much there for a while. Kind of felt like I was on OkQuizzy or something—not a bad thing, just not what I come here for.
Slowing it down was, I think, a good move. Stopping altogether? Eh. If you want. I don't really care either way, so long as stuff's not getting buried.
Oh no I didn’t get my feelings hurt .... I did create this post to invite all responses & I respected when you first gave your opinion ... I didn’t fully agree with it but I respected it & I also acknowledged it , your follow up comment was insinuating that somehow I’m lying & that I have certain motives, I have no reason to lie & I stated what happen, you seem to not like the reason I stated & formulated your own in your mind, I will not screenshot the message I got just to prove a point, I respect people’s privacy but if you like feel free & reach out to all moderators & have them tell you what was said to me (I’m sure their message is still saved) again you feel I’m spinning my wheels & this or that...., someone commented on this thread & I replied , someone asked a question I answered, you’re showing narcissistic behavior where everyone is wrong & you’re right by saying & asserting that certain things didn’t happen when I clearly shared it was & than sharing your views as truth (they might be to you but they aren’t the truths of what transpired) you’re right this is silly & I never want it to get to this, not on here & not with no one but please know not everyone is a pushover!
I don't want to patronose anyone, but it might be a good idea at this point for anyone who is starting to get heated about this to take a step back, calm down, and let the matter lie.
I also don't want to patronise anyone 🤣 why would it autocorrect to THAT???
Oh trust me , like someone else pointed out earlier - it could’ve autocorrect wayyy worst 😅🤣😂
@BuggleBear: Hahaha! The ways of autocorrect are many and mysterious. But you can go back and edit anything it's mixed up by using the gear icon on your posts.
@DarrenWalker oh cool, thanks for that, I'll bear it in mind for the future.
I'll leave this one up as a tribute to the ever-fallible nature of the human condition.
And...Also because my next post doesn't make much sense if I change that one 😁
@BuggleBear Patronose 🤪
@introvme strike that, reverse it
@introvme I may have been a little hard on you in my last posts . You seem like a decent person, benign and harmless enough . I prob could have chosen better words . My apologies to you .
@pmvines i honestly consider family here, & many as well!! my genuine honest approach has been always to share laughs with you all & have an escape ... if I’m ever in your area or you happen to be in nyc beers on me 🍻
No worries , glad you have a good attitude about it
Likewise & thank you!