@mexican5125 you can withdraw from weed and it is addictive. I have seen it first hand and there are medical studies to back me up. I am done with this thread. @FunCartel I am not the SNL church lady, I may hate organized religion as much as I hate drugs and alcohol. I am not some stuck-up, conservative person, I am a survivor of abuse who has had to endure the fallout of other people's addictions, and yes this makes me angry. If I had it my way drugs, alcohol, and big pharma would cease to exist. I am done now.
@mexican5125 Some people use anecdotal evidence of what has happened in their own life to condemn what they just don’t like. I lnow a couple of the people that responded negatively have been militant in other threads about staying on topic yet they failed to even read your initial post to see what the topic is. It isn't about cigars, stoners or boyfriends that need to be dumped—it is about like minded people sharing an affinity for 420. I do not get the negativity. Some people like to hear themselves preach.
@mexican5125 says "you cant withdrawals from weed." Science, alas, begs to differ.
https://www.verywellmind.com/what-to-expect-from-cannabis-withdrawal-22304
That said, I personally think it's generally a bad idea to be in an altered state of consciousness when cuddling. Drink, smoke, or what-have-you at other times, yeah?
And have fun.
@xandriarain starts scratching neck I'll sell you my watch for 3 dollas i need mah fix! 🤣 you sound very uneducated about what thc offers
@DarrenWalker show me a credible link from a gov. Backed page/real doctor that says younger withdrawals and stuff I quit smoking once a year with no problems
@mexican5125: You read the page, right? The study showed a small percentage of people don't get withdrawal symptoms. Lucky you!
The American Medical Association has said weed is addictive in extreme cases, but not nearly the issue nicotine is in cigarettes or the effects caused by heavy drinking. Lets stay on topic and get off the judging.
@DarrenWalker Stay on topic. If you dont use here is a gold star sticker. Otherwise move along to another thread. This thread is about 420 enthusiasts who cuddle.
@borntolive @gypsy_queen @BashfulLoner @Ramon9 welcome and i hope you find a good match to cuddle with. I have cuddled high and sober and find for me, i relax and am less fidgety when high.
On topic, I've got mild breathing issues and can't handle first, second or third hand smoke real well. So cuddling any kind of smoker's out for me unless we cuddle in, say, a well-ventilated parking lot or something.
And yeah, I still think consuming any substance that alters your judgement during a cuddle is probably a bad idea. If alcohol's out, I figure, so should weed be.
Off topic, if you don't like the one study you can try some others, see if they look more credible to you.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5414724/
https://www.researchgate.net/publication/7550051_The_marijuana_withdrawal_syndrome_Diagnosis_and_treatment
https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jamanetworkopen/fullarticle/2764234#243623621
I like facts. Big on reality, me.
@DarrenWalker Here is a big fact Mr Reality—the OP asked for 420 friendly people to respond. That is obviously not you yet you continue to sabotage the thread. Give it a rest. None of us are asking to cuddle you so you are not threatened. As a result, you are off topic.
🤣 never got so much negativity about smoking in my life until on a cuddling site lol I was under the assumption that no one even cared I'm not out here smokin meth or snorting coke I'm jus tryna get high and peacefully vibe sounds like all the people that dont smoke need to chill out and smoke
@FunCartel: The heck? I've got nothing against marijuana, or those who use it. Same as drinking, so far as I'm concerned, except that I can enjoy alcohol and I'm unfortunately cut off from the benefits of weed.
I just don't think it's a good idea to cuddle while actually in an altered state—and I also think it's silly to deny the existence of weed withdrawal, but that's incidental.
@mexican5125 Sorry that this is the reception you receive from the community. But it is comprised of people, and some, sad to say, are haters because it does not fit their views. Which is fine, but they shouldn’t sabotage a thread that was meant to bring a few like-minded people together. Trust me, there a ton of enthusiasts and pros who see things your way. I have encountered and cuddled a bunch of them.
@DarrenWalker theres plenty of ways to enjoy it like cooking and infusing it into tea ect. , massage oils too Smoking isnt the only way enjoy the benefits of thc also if you dont want to get high cbd is a better option
@mexican5125 Don’t engage him. You are not going to change his mind. He is only interested in being right. He is not interested in 420.
@mexican5125: Everyone I've ever known smoked it, so I've never had the opportunity to try anything else. There's a tea option? Dear me. I do like tea. That's cool. I'll have to look into that. Thanks, man.
(Won't be drinking it before or during any cuddle sessions, though!)
Edit: Allow me to roll my eyes @FunCartel. I am interested in being right—deeply interested!—and that means needing to be able to change my mind about stuff every now and then. You know: to better align my beliefs with reality. So they'll be right.
@DarrenWalker First time for everything i guess. But the addiction bit is a matter of degrees like anything. I do not smoke everyday, nor do i want to. But your beliefs that it is not a good idea is your belief. Duly noted. Lets get off that now.
@FunCartel: I didn't say playing (responsibly) with stuff that alters your mental state wasn't a good idea in general—just not, you know, during a cuddle.
Because it's a good idea to be sober when cuddling. Or, at least, this site's terms of use seem to think so... right?
Edit: I might be wrong—I'm at work and can't seem to find anything regarding @Mark's position on cuddling in an altered state.
@DarrenWalker There is nothing in the TAC about it partially because we are adults and if you are against it let a prospective partner know. I get someone not liking it and i would either abstain or move on to someone else. I have cuddled a ton of 420 enthusiasts and thats great, and we have not broken any of the rules. I have also been told no they do not like it and i abstained and we got on famously. But this thread is about 420 enthusiasts, not what Darren Walker thinks is a bad idea.
@FunCartel: Weird, I could've sworn I saw somewhere that we're not supposed to cuddle while drunk because it impairs judgement. Guess I was wrong! Carry on, then.
(I'm not sorry I interjected, though, because it got me this sweet tea tip.)
I looked over the TAC—nothing about it. If there is one, several pros and enthusiasts would be banned for requests of can you pick up a bottle of wine. I don’t drink alcohol much at all, bit i pick up bottles of wine—if it relaxes the person i am all for it. I am not going to judge them or pretend I am some sort of psychoanalyst. I just want to relax and cuddle. 420 relaxes me. The loss of anxiety outweighs whatever possible addiction risk is there and i can operate well under it because i know the strains and how much will get me there.
So are we cherry picking what we piss and moan about in terms of threads being on or off topic to include only the topics that we are personally interested in now ? @mexican5125 sorry for my off topic contribution. Of course that will tend to happen sometimes as threads take.form especially when it is a topic that people.have varying opinions about . You do you .
@pmvines Uh no, but the mods seem very militant about it now days. So if someone wishes to express their disgust and stereotypes i suggested someone start a thread about it and they did. I won’t post on it because i am not anti-420. That thread seems to be very negative and that’s fine. Let’s me know the people i wouldn’t want to ever hang with.
@FunCartel yeah I see your point . I suppose all the threads could have a better flow . I ironically have no problem with weed itself , I just don't like potheads lol but that's just me . And by that I dont mean people who use, I mean people who seem to be defined by it lol
@pmvines no problem. I understand what you are saying. I don’t mind someone who drinks but i hate drunks. That us not what i am about. The best sessions i have ever had were with people who enjoyed it as well. We would partake and then it was all about the cuddling. I don’t smoke everyday and if i do it is in the evening after work. I also brush my teeth and gargle with mouthwash after doing it.
With that said i invested in weed stocks and have done very well with them. I wouldn’t recommend it now—i jumped on it when California legalized it. None of them sent me any free samples bring an investor lol.
420 friendly and laughs are just added benefit. When interested message me 🤝🌬😁
@cuddleexpert101 I am sure you will find someone in south Florida! Lots of cuddlers in your area.
🥰 finally theres an anti 420 thread full of negativity and unhappy people while we can stay positive and happy here smoke on everyone 💨
I have had a couple of people want to cuddle because of this thread. They are 420 friendly of course. One keeps it on the DL.