@sage_wisdom
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Sorry.
despite being fully clothed are still always exposed
People can do with they want 🤷🏽♀️ Or under health circumstances they lose hair. Some women look really good with that look but it’s rare. I used to have one side shaved a few years ago ... toke forever to grow back .
are giving into fate and prepping for their alien brain probe.
There has been a long line of men in my life that have requested to the point of almost requiring that I have long hair: my father, my first longtime boyfriend, and my husband—and this is just to name the prominent men.
There have constantly been comments from voices everywhere I go about how much people like my hair and that I should never cut it off. It all feels like a lot of pressure when having this much hair is very time consuming. Even today at the grocery store a man commented on my hair.
After separating from my husband and beginning divorce proceedings, he asked me if I had began dating. I had a little bit. He then suggested that I cut off all my hair. Oh, the irony.
I don't think I care. Probably. If I do it would be minor. I haven't had the proper conditions to know.
I think it's great for aero and hydrodynamics!
Think about how that would cut down on waiting for people to walk through
The lanes of Walmart
I usually comment on how we have the same barber (most of us bald by choicers shave our own heads) it's a fun little ice breaker.
Also the cone head jokes amuse me heh
I guess a shaved head would be more "hairodynamic" (or would that be less?)
Once upon a time, I was a bartender in an alternative nightclub.
I had a Mohawk, and honey blonde hair to my hips. Think Tank Girl. Fishnets, cut off red button fly Levis, sometimes rangers, more often cowboy boots with spurs. Push up bras or corsets. A few facial piercings.
Friday night's, I didn't start setting up the bar, until my boss took clippers to it, freshened it up.
I played with it constantly, the slight fuzz felt so good. But 2 weeks, and it was like Velcro.
Last couple years I've been fighting the urge, every month or 2, of doing it again. But keeping the lines straight, on my own, would be very hard.
Today I met someone at work, black dreads, dragon tatt on her head. I was so jealous. Talked to her, a bit. She had a Mohawk, but didn't trim it, herself. Others tend to wobble the lines, a bit. Eventually, back got shaved off, entirely, by fixing such errors.
I may or may not still do this.
On others, completely depends on head shape. Some, it looks good. Others, not so much. But if they like the feel, all power to them.
@sage_wisdom: you got me giggling.
No opinion because it looks good on some people, not so good on others.
I've shaved my head a couple of times ~ I've settled on a nice, short length that I prefer for myself, but ah man, I think women look amazing bald XD I love playing with hair, but I can just as easily give a nice scalp massage instead ^^
@MaullySterling, that's awesome, great idea if you decide to go ahead with it - any Tank Girl look is friggin fierce!
I sometimes wish I could pull off shorter hair, but I was blessed/cursed with such a manly-ass jawline that when my hair is short, people read me as male. I had it short only once and I'd rather not repeat that awkward experience.
@hawker69 not cancer, in my case, but another medical reason, yes.
@CuddleJay02 do you think that is because the social connotations/implications are different for black women and white women?
@DarrenWalker that's an interesting take on it, thank you. In my case it just meant 'oh no, look at all these bald patches, I can't cover them all anymore, let's shave the rest to give my scalp a break' 🤣
Thank you @TouchSanctuary, I suspect I look like a potato but it'll be better in the long run than if I hadn't done this now. I just have to take courage and inspiration from all of the badass, beautiful, bald babes out there ❤️
@CuddleDuncan it was quite an impulsive thing to be honest. I was sick of living with my hair as it was, and it was taking so long to try to style it around my naked patches that often I'd just throw a beanie hat or wig on anyway. The nice thing about my hair being buzzed is that it sort of acts like Velcro- less slippage!
@Lyssababy92 I'm quite lucky in that my hair grows pretty quickly. In six months I'll have enough to style and do stuff with-- just in time for summer! I'll be rocking a pixie crop before I know it 🧑🏻
@Importance my inner teen rebel was the only past of that wasn't reluctant to shave my head-- she was all for it because she knew others would HATE it. 😂
@NightShift39 we DO have the same barber 💈😁 also, no Coneheads jokes yet but I did get called Kojak already 🙄
@MaullySterling absolute QUEEN. Lori Petty would be proud. Yeah, if I feel self conscious I just tell myself it's punk as heck to have a shaved head, then I put on some more eyeliner, and some blue lipstick, and lean into the whole aesthetic 💄💙
@EarthlyAngel003 feel free to come and massage coconut oil into my naked.... scalp! Jokes aside, I have never used coconut oil for beauty purposes before and it is SO SOOTHING. I had lots of small wounds on my head where I'd pulled hair out, and the oil seems to be helping them to not scar, so that's amazing.
@squeakytoy this definitely hasn't made me more attractive, it's made me look like a fat old man, but it's also made me realise how much pressure I was putting on myself to look a certain way so people would like me or think of me favourably. I think this is going to be a great learning experience for me now I don't have hair to hide behind (figuratively)
I'm sure I'll be bashed for not liking it, but I'm not a big fan of women with shaved heads and it would be a deal breaker for me. Bash away, my homies!
@spuds not at all, you're allowed your opinion. I know a lot of people don't like it, and I can understand a lot of the reasons why.
Do you mean it would be a deal breaker in terms of you cuddling, or in something like dating?
@BuggleBear Both.
@spuds I really appreciate your honesty. All I’ve heard all my life is that men want women’s hair to be long. And then here on this forum they are acting like they don’t mind. Thank you thank you thank you.
@Importance Glad I could be of assistance!
Short, fuzzy hair feels great! Aesthetically it's usually not my preference, but if I have permission to touch her head, the feel more than makes up for the look, in my book.
I don't recall meeting in person a woman with a clean shaven head. I imagine I'd feel similarly, though (as long as it weren't done for neo-Nazi reasons): not my cup of tea visually, but if I could touch and caress her scalp directly without hair in the way, that would be amazing.
Regardless, a great smile does a whole lot more for me than any hair type/style.
@Importance maybe the men here genuinely don't mind? It could be that in this situation, when discussing platonic cuddling, hair is really quite unimportant.
I actually HATE having my head/hair touched anyway, so that filters out me cuddling any individuals that would want to touch my hair, so in the circumstances, it would work out quite well that men (/people) that like touching hair wouldn't want to meet me 😁
@mtp I am definitely not a neo-Nazi, don't worry. 😳😁
@Importance Are the guys who tell you they want women's hair to be long the same guys on this forum who say they don't mind? Or do you mean you don't believe it when a guy says they don't mind?
I mean it when I say I don't mind, because what matters to me is the person they are inside and the time we spend together. And I don't think it's really up to me what someone wants to do with their own body anyway. I think a shaved head isn't a big deal, so I wouldn't let that be a deal breaker. (And now that I think about this kind of thing a bit more, I'm not sure if something like excessive tattoos or piercings would be an issue..)
@FlyingToaster actually, this is an interesting question to me. I was referring to men in my real life discussing my hair. However in this Cuddle comfort community, men who have seen pictures of me always complement my hair also. While I appreciate the compliments I always feel it is also a form of pressure to keep it the same way. Carrot/horse, double edge sword, whatever.
I believe that the majority of men absolutely mind the length of a females hair. So what I’m saying is that while they may not mind if they’re cuddling a female who has a shaved head they probably don’t want to date or marry her. But this is a platonic cuddling site. So my opinion about dating and marrying does not matter here.
But obviously I am generalizing. I do believe you when you say that you don’t mind a females appearance. I genuinely believe you.
A benefit to shaved head on women when cuddling is no choking on hair.
@Importance I think you're still overestimating how much men care about hair length. I have many preferences about women, hair length included. But most of those preferences, especially when taken individually, are minor and make essentially no difference in whether I would cuddle, date, or marry someone.