@mtp maybe it's more that the men who DO have particular preferences re:how a woman 'should' wear her hair are simply more vocal about it.
Sadly even in 2021 there are some very outmoded concepts regarding what hair 'means', and a shocking number of men who feel entitled to dictate to a woman what she should do with any part of her body, hair included.
It's worth bearing in mind that while opinions are fine, and I appreciate the input from everyone that has replied-when it comes down to it, I do what is right for me and my body, and if anyone is narrow minded enough to not be able to accept that, and furthermore- feel they have a right to dictate my actions, I'm glad they make that clear early on so I know to avoid them 😁
My body, my choice.
@BuggleBear well the conehead jokes usually happen when a bald male/female pair are out and about together, though in this case I meant the ones we make to eachother. I'm always kind of saddened if they don't come up lol feels like a wasted opportunity to laugh at ourselves in a good way but I'm often told I'm weird soo...
@NightShift39 nowt wrong with weird, mate.
@spuds, no offence, but making a shaved head a deal-breaker for cuddling is daft. It just doesn't matter. It's not relevant. Cuddling is nothing to do with physical attractiveness.
I know a lot of people prefer to cuddle with folk they find attractive, and that's ok. We prefer to do almost everything with people we find attractive. But to make it a deal-breaker is to elevate it to a point way beyond its true significance.
are the shiny dots you see when you look out an airplane window.
are taking the phrase “I’m going to headbutt you” too literally.
hurt less when given a noogie.
@Importance Hmm, the general opinion people who post on the forum I'm guessing, are not an accurate representation of CC as a whole. So it's possible the people who are posting on here genuinely don't factor in hair length to a great extent. For example, pretty much everyone calls out blatantly sexual/harassing messages in the forums, yet it's pretty rampant in PM.
Back to the forum topic: People can do what they want with their hair, I don't care as I am not them. Me personally, I find longer hair to be generally more attractive on women. I also like playing with hair while cuddling. It doesn't matter to me if a guy has long or short hair.
This is what society thinks when women shave their heads.