I have always enjoyed cuddling. Unfortunately though I was raised by a family that told me that I should not ask people to scratch my hands when cuddling. Because of the fact that people may be uncomfortable. And I thought I would post this here because this community actually would understand. Most of the cuddler is that I have met with have been OK with it. In fact one person I met with actually did this for the entire session and while that was going on we were talking about various topics like the elections and other things.
I never understand why people think that it can be inappropriate. I definitely would consider it to be harmless. Especially since I can’t see I think that touch is definitely an important thing.
I also enjoy it when a cuddler Raps their arms around me and scratches my hand. Because it gives me a feeling of comfort. And I also think it feels soothing and therapeutic.