My story

I have always enjoyed cuddling. Unfortunately though I was raised by a family that told me that I should not ask people to scratch my hands when cuddling. Because of the fact that people may be uncomfortable. And I thought I would post this here because this community actually would understand. Most of the cuddler is that I have met with have been OK with it. In fact one person I met with actually did this for the entire session and while that was going on we were talking about various topics like the elections and other things.
I never understand why people think that it can be inappropriate. I definitely would consider it to be harmless. Especially since I can’t see I think that touch is definitely an important thing.
I also enjoy it when a cuddler Raps their arms around me and scratches my hand. Because it gives me a feeling of comfort. And I also think it feels soothing and therapeutic.

Comments

  • [Deleted User]DarrenWalker (deleted user)

    Huh. Can't see how anyone could think scratching somebody's hands and fingers is sexual. Weird.

    I like having my hands scratched. It's pleasant. All those nerve endings in the fingers, you know? In my family we had a special technique involving bending the fingers back (to stretch the skin out) then scratching them.

    Looks torturous, but feels very nice!

  • @darrenwalker, I don’t see anything wrong with him either. That is why I decided to post this in this particular forum on this website because people understand. Most of the people that I have that with have been more than happy to do this for me. In fact one person was kind of hesitant about meeting with me because she thought that her hand scratches were a bit firm. And as it turns out, it was some of the best hand scratching I have ever received.

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