It seems like sometimes before I have a chance to even talk to someone they are being banned? Am I to assume they are up to no good🤨🤷♀️? Any info welcomed
You usually don't get banned for good things. Just sayin'........
@katy23 they is up to some nefarious shenanigans.
Your assumptions are correct.
Dey done goofed!
They done f’d up. Better that it saved you the misfortune of having to deal with them.
@katy23 Yes, you play with the bull you get the horn.
@Mmart or the hooves, they like to stomp you after they throw ya. Not a fun place to be but the few seconds leading up to it are a HELL of a rush!!!
Yes, that would be our glorious mods taking care of business. ☺️✨ They're so quick about it, too. It's certainly saved me a lot of time and trouble.
Yes, consider it a blessing in disguise if they get banned before you have to interact with them. It means they violated at least one of the rules. Speaking from experience also 🤦♀️
@Rjs5248 you’ve violated the rules and been banned before? Dang.
@katy23 a man will get banned quite easily. We are expendable. Mere suspicion of a future action is enough.
Women can have profiles with racy pics. Worst case is a warning. Women can make it clear in their profile they want a dating relationship and are affectionate. Men can't.
NO ONE can have "racy" pics, @AlfredNeuman: report them. Inappropriate pics are removed. Nudity gets outright bans. This site isn't a dating site, and those with this in their profile, male or female, should be reported. Thanks. [-Sid]
@AlfredNeuman women get banned all the time. It's very common.
Rubbish. Removed. [-Sid]
Why not delete messages and issue a warning? Or allow an optional section for like minded. You know, a G rated area and a R rated area of the Forum. Redirect profiles/accounts
@AlfredNeuman - an "optional section for like minded" for... what?
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Cuddling with adults making their own consensual decisions? Where's the harm?
Like changing channels when the televangelist comes on or 50 Shades is rerun. Its a thing in 2021
This site is already 18+. This site is platonic by design. If by consensual you mean anything non-platonic, you're in the wrong place.
@AlfredNeuman
Where's the harm?
Are you nuts? The harm is vast.
If you truly don't understand that you are on the wrong website.
Try a dating site if you're into something non-platonic. Plenty of Fish is also free. So is Tinder.
He made his intentions clear. I didn't have time to pop any popcorn.
It's correct that adults can make their own consensual decisions, but this website is designed for people to feel safe that they will not get any non-platonic proposals and it's best to keep it that way.
a man will get banned quite easily. We are expendable. Mere suspicion of a future action is enough.
Hmm.
Why not delete messages and issue a warning? Or allow an optional section for like minded.
Hmmmm.
Well, this is going downhill fast. Hopefully not toward a tree.
EDIT: It was going toward a tree after all. I just saw the red X
Looks like he was finally banned...on a thread about being banned.
I haven't experienced that myself, but I've heard someone said they had cuddled with someone after they were banned and they seemed to be a nice person. It sounds like sometimes there have been cases where someone was banned due to a misinterpreted comment or something, but I'm sure in most cases it's due to them actually being up to no good.
@FlyingToaster - I heard you can appeal bans if it was done in error.. then it would be up to the mods if they're telling the truth.
@Mike403
@FlyingToaster Sometimes good people have bad days. I presume that sometimes those bad days get them banned. Some people who are banned learn the lesson.