Thoughts on going in public?

edited December 2016 in General
So, I have been thinking about it, and we are allowed to do outcalls as pros, and incalls for it and even offer sleepovers sometimes... But are we allowed to say go to a coffee shop? or to a diner, to get some hot coco and talk there? or even going to a dinner? or would that be considered "Escorting/crossing lines?? ?
Because I think paid dates could be fun too. obviously nothing sexual, just eating and more human connection. walking around holding hands, ya know? :) nice change of scenery, especially if you have been seeing a regular for a good while.

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  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    I think that's an amazing idea and not crossing the line at all. This is something that can be incredibly beneficial for people that struggle with things social as social problems. I'm not a therapist however so take what I'm saying with a grain of salt. I personally don't know if I would ever hire a date though, I would rather cuddle ;-p
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited December 2016
    There are a few pros here who already do that actually.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    I also think most pros drop the price slightly for going out. 
  • You could also take into consideration that some clients might prefer(or even insist) on the initial meeting taking place in a public place...
  • edited December 2016
    I did a fun cuddle picnic in the park with a pro, and she has gone on cuddle hikes with people.  It's totally a thing, and it doesn't seem more "escorty" to me than cuddling in bed.  If a guy wants you to "dress hot" and create sexual tension, though, that doesn't sound like a cuddle session anymore.  Also, this pro and I get along really well; we like each other and converse easily.  It's not part of the price.  I would not propose a cuddle session with her that didn't include cuddling, unless she offered, but I'd rather cuddle anyway.  I think it's something you could feel out.
  • you also never know who is an undercover cop
  • An undercover cop would be wasting his time if you aren't doing anything illegal and cuddling is not illegal. THIS IS NOT A COVERUP FOR PROSTITUTION! Get it or get out.
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    Yea I don't think the police are spending money and time going after cuddlers lol
  • Thank you docgatorb, you got that right (: glad to see others standing up for it 

  • what should I be charging?  how long?  what kind of cuddling...
  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)
    Charge 10 rubies. 

    For 10 hours.

    Pro Rasslin Cuddlin.

    OFF THE TOP ROPE!
  • Why charge when you could be giving? Better to give than receive, 'tis the season, think how merry you will be!
  • [Deleted User]Aiko (deleted user)
    Merry and broke lol
  • Cuddling in public? I like it!

  • @spuds were you bored last night? The resurrections are real lol what page did you make it to?

  • @docgatorb , OG mod long before @reurbo, @SoulcuddlerZ , and @Sideon ! Also hasn't been around for at least a couple yrs lol . What a blast from the past

  • edited February 2021

    Cuddling in public is dope and an actual profile option. No idea what this place was like in 2016. Maybe there was no option then. Keep reviving those threads spuds. Your hard work and deep thoughts are appreciated.

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