Hi, everybody. I send these remarks out, with the best of intentions, and the greatest respect to every CC person. I really want to improve myself, and help others in the process. I joined this site, certainly seeking cuddles with good ladies, with whom to enjoy many clean, decent, proper, and joyful experiences. For cuddling, specifically, I kept my searches limited to a 150-mile radius of my home, near Phoenix, which is among the top several largest metro areas in the USA. Furthermore, for long-distance friends, just to converse with, I messaged lots of ladies around the nation. In doing that, I took special notice of those occasional profiles and posts, where a woman seemed to be crying out for help with loneliness, grief, or any other sort of emotional pain. My heart always goes out to them. When I become aware of another person who is suffering, it hurts me so deeply. I want to help. So, I reach out to her with a message of hope, to tell her that somebody is out there, who has noticed and who cares. No cuddles expected, or even anticipated by me. No strings, just a caring, helping hand. But, whether I message for cuddles with an enthusiast or a pro, responses are rare. And, when I message anyone else, just to chat, or especially to help, they almost never reply. I am concluding that there's something I am doing seriously wrong, and I want to fix it, so I can stop scaring, creeping out, or otherwise offending so many wonderful women. I know I am way far from perfect, so I seek your kind, but also, honest advice. Not just for myself, but also for the many other good guys here, who are trying not only to find joy, but also to spread it! Thanks, everybody, for your time, and for your patience with me. :-)