(Since our last thread was rudely interrupted and ruined I wanted to start a different yet similar discussion to some extent. I made sure to capitalize in the title in order to have a better outcome. Doesn't apply to mods of course if they need to intervene.)
Ok so maybe it comes up more among pros but certainly can with enthusiast cuddlers unless it's just me who had this issue so far. So basically have you had them contact you and just ignore what your profile says or not read it at all when you try your best to inform them? Like I have this feeling that some do not care to know how you run your business (pros) or how you like to cuddle (enthusiasts). What I mean is I often get them to say like so my place or your place? And I'm like have you read the word public in my profile? Ok, maybe I don't say it like that but I still remind them since obviously they should know the answer already. Of course my repeat clients have more choices since I feel safe with them already but newbies just public. Then some even try to tell me how to run my business as in deciding when they want to pay or telling me to agree to doing something else. Personally, I only accept payments before the session and some are like well I'll pay during or whatever. I have nicely said that I'm not the one you should do business with then. This has changed some minds so far but have you had issues like that where they try to control the situation and just shush up your side? If so, how did you handle it? Have you been cuddling less now because of some issues you'd like to share? Or what causes you to turn down a cuddle? Or how can one guarantee to get a second/repeat cuddle from you?
Men-obviously just listen. Don't give any advice please. Don't suggest something for us to change. We don't want that right now. We just want to share and discuss our experiences and not have a repeat of the last thread. Feel free to start a topic on something mentioned here though or contact someone personally about it.