How badly do you need a cuddle?

[Deleted User]Starlost (deleted user)

Let's face it- most of popular culture condescends and belittles the need for affection that extends anywhere outside of "let's boink" or "I'm in love".

But on this site we are able to be more honest about our affection needs and recognize the scientifically proven need for physical touch that contributes to psychological an even physical wellbeing.
(Example source article from Berkeley University: https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/hands_on_research)

That being said, most of us are (still?) here because, quite simply, we need a hug. Let's guage the current community temperature:

How badly could you use a snuggle right now?
On a 1 to 10, where 1 is "I need my alone time right now" and 10 is "I need a snuggle so badly that I'd drive an hour for a handshake"

(site admins- poll is a bit boffed on the mobile site. It goes from option 2 to option 13)

  1. How badly do you need a 1 hour stress-free snuggle?158 votes
    1. 1
        3.16%
    2. 2
        1.90%
    3. 3
        1.27%
    4. 4
        0.63%
    5. 5
        5.70%
    6. 6
        6.96%
    7. 7
      10.76%
    8. 8
      10.76%
    9. 9
      12.03%
    10. 10
      46.84%
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Comments

  • usually I am a 6
    Today is a 10 for me. i have had one of those days

  • [Deleted User]Starlost (deleted user)

    I totally understand where a 10 day is coming from.
    The last 2 years of my marriage was "Roommate Mode" so I started a divorce Nov 2019... And COVID hit.
    So yeah- I fully understand Level 10 days.

  • My love language is physical touch - I'm a 10 nearly every day.

    Covid has been horrendous 😢

  • You see, this guy goes to 11.

  • gravely... 10...million... I hate hand shakes but enjoy holding hands with people I like

  • Been cuddling all night with friend so at the moment a 0. I need my space lol

  • Right now I’m at a 10. Going through a divorce

  • Dedinitely a 10

  • [Deleted User]Rachelina (deleted user)

    11

  • [Deleted User]Mmart (deleted user)

    Probably an 8. But one hour won't fix that...

  • Maybe a 5...? I had a nice time with my cuddling buddy this past Wed, then weekend was really busy, and now heading to a work trip. Too bad I couldn't find a cuddler where I'm going to :wink:

  • I voted 1. I used to be a 10, all the time. And I still am, quite often. But now I get so many cuddles I''m starting to relish the time off. It's a totally mundane feeling obviously .... but also a slightly extraordinary one.

  • edited May 2021

    Sooooo, I’m making up for the time between when I was born until now, since I’m the only one in my family that likes physical touch, so about a 10+++ daily

  • I can't even hold onto a cup of coffee...

  • @CuddleDuncan I'm with you on that. Feel almost guilty saying it since so many people seem to have a hard time finding cuddle friends. But it does really get to a point where I just need to do something else or risk losing the connection that I have to cuddling. Just need my own space sometimes

  • [Deleted User]Starlost (deleted user)
    edited May 2021

    52 votes so far.
    2 out if 3 place themselves at 8 or above.

    It is unfortunate that there are so many lonely people out there.

  • It's so sad to see so many people in dire need in touch :( I wish for all of you to be able to find a good cuddler nearby

  • I'm revising my answer to 20 on a scale of 1 to 10.

    😭

  • [Deleted User]Domenick21 (deleted user)

    I've been a solid 9 for over 2.5 years so far.

  • I am borderline 10 today. More of a 9 in all seriousness though. 😅

  • Usually around 5 as I’m used to being the odd man out and/or single for most of my life, and learned how to be good with it. That being said, when a cuddle session begins, it feels like I was at 10 just beforehand! I hope that makes sense 🙃

  • I have to deactivate regularly because there is too much cuddling already in place and I don’t want to seem off Standish ...

  • Mike counting his cuddle wealth 😁

  • After a long day at work I’m at like a 10!

  • Had a good cry and hugged myself earlier following a mini anxiety attack. Glad to hear I’m not the only 10, particularly today. Must be something in the water?

  • Today has been a good day, but sometimes we all reach a 10 and my go to position is laying my head on someone's chest! <3

  • I'd say I'm consistently at a 7, I could always go for a cuddle! I want to cuddle all the 10s out there for sure!

  • [Deleted User]CocktailsAndInk (deleted user)

    Well, I haven’t had a good cuddle in at least 10 years, so, you do the math.

  • [Deleted User]Domenick21 (deleted user)

    4 days ago I said 9 but these past few days have beaten me down lower than I've been in a long time so I'm stuck deep in a 10.

  • In London it's difficult to find a woman 10 men chasing after 1 woman its like competition I always pay can't find a girlfriend or cuddle body

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