How would that work if their rates are the same or slightly different? They would both expect to get paid. Hmmm....
"Male pros" are barely even a thing. Some exist, but they get very few clients. I guarantee you, the vast majority of the time, when a male and female pro cuddle, the male is acting as the client and is paying the female.
Think about it... if a woman normally cuddles men for a fee, and she gets clients regularly, why would she cuddle for free just because a given man has the word "professional" on his profile?
I have seen a few instances on the forum and in karma though where two female pros met and cuddled for free.
That is just about what I expected to hear. But if the situation were reversed and the man is a pro and gets clients regularly and she doesn't, he would still be expected to pay. So much for equality. Have a good night all. It is too bad that inequality has taken over a site like this that had potential. It is all about the women and guys get nothing unless they pay. I am out again. Take care all. I don't have time for this anymore.
LOL what? It's not like somebody dictated that female pros must be successful and male pros must not. Women always have been and, for the foreseeable future will continue to be, in more demand than men. Just the way it goes.
If two pros cuddle, my understanding is they work out rates themselves (if any) and keep the site owner informed. I could be mistaken. It's basically none of our business as non-pros, though.
I concur with both @CuddleWho and @mtp.
@Cntrydance28340 sounds like you are pretty miserable. This thread may help in the medium term:
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/10731/how-i-found-happiness-on-cuddle-comfort#top
They are each compensated with donuts