Why are there so many scammers and weirdos?

[Deleted User]cuddlenerd123 (deleted user)
in General
I've only been on here for a few days now, and I've come across multiple people looking to scam for cash or just ask for strange stuff. They get banned most often, but still it's strange. What's going on here?

Comments

  • Mike403Mike403
    You must be new to the internet.
  • funandadventurefunandadventure
    @cuddlenerd123. Dear Cuddle if this happens report to @mark he has the ability to look at all e-mails and ban people who try it on.
  • MarkMark Mod
    edited July 2017
    I see several reports each day and most are banned immediately. So yes, just report and watch them disappear. 
  • MorpheusMorpheus
    I'm surprised that @Mark is on top of it as much as he is considering this must all take a lot of work. He does an amazing job of keeping the site clean.
  • [Deleted User]NikiJay88 (deleted user)

    For me I have yet to even have someone attempt to scam me. I have met a few "interesting" gentlemen but nothing has spawned from that. The only thing I run into is people who ask me to have a day ready and never follow through, it aggravates me because another person could have really used that day to cuddle and it's not fair to others and myself that a person does that. Or I had one that lied about reading and was going to under pay me, by a lot. At the time I was like, this is fine, but next time please don't lie to me and read it (it's not written there just to look pretty, I didn't say this part but it's true).

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @Nikijay88 I'm sure the majority of scamming is directed at men on the site. What's happened to you is bad as well but I don't know that I would put that into the category of scamming. That's more just bad clients.

  • Mike403Mike403

    I think that standing someone up is worse than scamming. At least scamming is easy to detect if you use your brain.

  • [Deleted User]teapot (deleted user)

    I think they come here because cuddling platonically is still seen as kind of out of the norm and a lot of close-minded dirtbags think that people looking to cuddle platonically are grasping straws at a relationship that they cannot achieve. They seek out this imaginary desperation because they feel like it makes scamming easy for them.

    It's a good thing that this community is so open with each other and so committed to keeping itself clean. We are not a bunch of desperate idiots begging for any scrap of physical attention. We are like-minded people with a sincere approach at intimacy and when they eventually figure that out they'll stop coming.

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    @teapot, I don't think that is really scamming. Scamming is more like fakes trying to get money out of people not people desperate for relationship.

  • Mike403Mike403

    Scamming is a fake profile who contacts a guy pretending to be a girl interested in them. They then ask the guy to send them money and come up with excuses such as they need it for travel or whatever.