Has anyone actually gotten any work doing this?
Hi @TeddyBear36 ive been on here for less than a month and have had a handful of wonderful life-giving bookings, two dozen useless conversations with time wasters, (defined as people who fake wanting a session but get off on wasting your time) and too many blocked accounts to count.
I would check the rules first, I think you are supposed to be wearing clothes in your profile pic. It takes time to learn the ropes but this site is pretty easy to follow once I got the rhythm going. Most people do say that men have fewer bookings but that’s not across the board.
Welcome!
@TeddyBear36 - I'll refer you to the FAQ (https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/4232/frequently-asked-questions/p1) read it, please.
You need a clothed profile pic, ASAP.
I wanted to comment something silly like, "Hi sir, welcome to Wendy's. I was just helping my coworker unload the dead bodies. Can you put on a shirt and we'll be happy to serve you?"
@Catloaf 😂. I wanted to say something like “yeah I’m working here! Like 6 ,7 days a week lately!! I’m getting exhausted 😩
I did in the beginning and all I got were men thinking I was some sort of escort, expecting more than a cuddle. I no longer use this site to cuddle, or cuddle for that matter. Then I had someone who seemed nice schedule a cuddle and when I found out we lived far, I had to cancel. His response? "I would have cuddled you up and down" and "I tip well, I would have had you leave smiling" I told him to find someone else. I didn't like that attitude. I did manage to meet one person who I did cuddle with that is super nice. I met someone else who seemed super nice but turned into a huge flake. I think it's awesome other women are doing so well using this site. It seems it isn't for me. And I can't just cuddle with anyone either, as I am careful with who I spend my personal space with.
I haven’t gotten any work in my first two months as a Pro.
@TeddyBear36, men have a tough time getting any cuddles at all on this site, let alone asking someone to pay for it. Have you read the pinned posts in the professional forum? If not, please do, especially the one on how to make it as a male professional.
Just so you know, men outnumber women at about a 4:1 ratio. Not trying to discourage you, just discourage any unrealistic expectations.
In the month since I signed up, I have had too many messages to count. Out of those messages, I've gotten about ten sessions.
@Babichev is right. I started on cuddle comfort on a false understanding that I'll be able to gain money by cuddle and not really seeing the important of actually knowing how to hug professional. I assume the compliment I've received on the girls I knew express that I'm amazing at this and should be paid for it. But thats not true I had a bloated pride about myself which which was toxic. As I gotten to know a few people on this platform and engaged in discussions, it open a view of understanding that I never really thought about. Having say that being paid on this site should be reserved to those who are professional and have backing of karma proving their ability. And if not that's okay. Hug for purpose of hugging; to feel loved and comforted
Good for you for coming to that realization, @phil123cuddle
…being paid on this site should be reserved to those who are professional and have backing of karma proving their ability.
Unfortunately, a man can feel called to cuddle others from a place of humility and service, learn from many people here for several months, complete a training program and become certified, and have several excellent Karma reviews before going Pro on this site, and still get no work.
@phil123cuddle it's a rare treat to come across somebody who is able and willing to go through the little journey of discovery and self-discovery that you have been on.
Please will you post that same exact comment on this thread .... there are a lot of people who would benefit from reading it. Thank you!
https://www.cuddlecomfort.com/forum/discussion/10371/how-to-make-it-as-a-male-professional-cuddler#latest