I believe that CHEMISTRY and ENERGY can be radiated regardless of the age difference. What do you think??
As long as it’s over 18, have at it lol
Yes over the LEGAL AGE!!!
I think that my left hip, lower back, various scars, and nerve damage disagree.
Age is a sometimes painful, often annoying, fact.
Men, and I am speaking for myself and some close friends, enter into the Brotherhood of the Oooof.
Chairs with good back support are sacred.
Hot showers in the morning are for mobility as well as cleanliness.
We have favorite ice packs.
Socially?
I find the enthusiasm and energy of younger people quite fun, but prefer the company of someone closer to my age.
More chemistry, conversations I don’t have to pretend to follow, less judgement when my knee pops and my hip creaks in six languages when I stand up and start to limp to where I am headed.
So, sure, age is only so important, but it isn’t only a number.
Gravity sucks, and entropy is a real pain in the everything.
Age is a number....until you hit 30.....
Yesterday I cuddled with a professional I have not met before. I am 54. She is 20. There was a lot of conversation, and it was a very happy and successful session.
The age difference was relevant once. I had heard of a song (Popcorn) which was pertinent to the conversation, whereas she hadn't because it was from before her time. Other than that the age difference didn't matter.
(Wait, 54 or 53 .... no, it is 54.)
I don't consider age when deciding whether to cuddle somebody.
Personally, I am comfortable with all ages! I would cuddle with Olivia Newton-John or Tina Turner.
People gravitate towards those people that they have things in common with, or have traits that they find admirable. Being around the same age makes it easier to connect with someone since that's one thing that is shared in common already. Having one or even two major things in common isn't everything though, for example I've seen people that were the same age playing on the same soccer (football for the non US people) team that didn't care for each other's company.
Younger people are generally thought of as more energetic, physically attractive, and rebellious. Older people are often thought of as more stable, wise and knowledgeable, and wealthy. There is definitely subjectivity here, and people vary on their maturity level and it may not always coincide with age. It is obvious that what you admire in a person will be the people you'd likely want to cuddle with. This may or may not coincide with age. Or maybe something happened to a person that causes them to have a more positive association with a certain age group (if they never got along with anyone in grade school, they might be uncomfortable with people their own age).
"(Wait, 54 or 53 .... no, it is 54.)" 🤣 I do that all the time! Another old age thing. We sometimes forget exactly how old we are. My birthday's later in the month but I've already been 49 for months now.
Haha I'm 32 and I do that!
Age is just a number. And IQ is just a number, too. That is, IQ are just numbers, assuming it's over 9. Wait... IQ are letters. Ok... Let me find my calculator and spell check this.
I think about age, but mostly because I believe that those much younger than I am might be thinking about it. So far, I've only cuddled with pros. I've connected very successfully with people in their 20's 30's and 40's. In my geographical area, there are fewer cuddlers close to my age.
Since my experience with younger pros has been positive, I'd be open to cuddling with enthusiasts who are younger as well. Most of them have an upper limit for those they are willing to cuddle, however. I certainly understand that, and don't think poorly of them for feeling that way.
@sunnysideup mentioned some qualities that tend to be associated with youth and with age. I agree that there is a tendency for humans to feel comfortable with people like themselves, but I believe that there can also be something that draws us to those who have something we don't have. In my real-world relationships, some of my closest friendships are with people outside my generation. They look up to me because of their perception that I am wise. (I let them think that.) I enjoy their company because of their energy and enthusiasm for life.
In short, I'd cuddle anyone of any age, but recognize that there are those who would choose not to cuddle me because of mine. I certainly don't let that get me down though. 🙂
This is a youth driven site.
If both are over the age of 18, age no longer matters. They are old enough to make their own decisions while minors don't understand what they're getting into(the reason the consent laws exist)
Ask a 4 year old if age is just a number.
They get super excited about that counting and age stuff. Lol
@MaineCuddle , are you sure you are not 39 and holding? 😉
We can only have good vibes if we let ourselves govern by spiritual side.
As long as you are both of age, the chemistry and attraction are there and you blend well together, age is irrelevant!!!
@Cessna_guy Thanks. 😊 I've actually been turning 26 for more than a couple decades now.
As long as the vibes are good, and the age is legal, it's all gravy. I try not to be judgemental. Everyone could use some healing time by bieng held every now and then. It's probably the most basic human need beside food, water, and air, but we just keep distancing ourselves; putting up walls and putting on faces, because we don't want to seem weak. I want to be a provider of nourishment for the soul.
I have cuddled with people who range in age from their twenties to their sixties and had things in common with all of them. It's been pleasant to discover.
I'm 65 and I cuddle with women in their 20s to 40s . It's never been an issue about the age Gap. However, maturity and wisdom helps in a conversation.
I couldn’t agree more age is just a number, but me personally I prefer to cuddle women in their 40s or older as they are mature, and have life experience.
I'm accepting all ages. I have cuddled folks 20 to 70. This is platonic services so age is non use. It's the genuine connections that matters.
I am accepting all all ages above 18!!!😁🤗😎🎉
I’m 50 and have friends of all ages. My 2 closest female friends are 24 and 32.
Throwin' down ain't nothin' but a thang?
I don't care about age. I care about your energy and the energy I feel from you. I also have a lot of heat that my body gives off. Not sure why... but yet my temp is always 98.6 until I cuddle. Go figure!!
I had chemistry with a girl in my class when I was 10. We used to hold hands under our desks. And we both promised never to hold hands with anyone else. As far as this site goes though, most (non-pro) women's profiles specify an acceptable age range. However, whenever this topic comes up, almost everyone says age doen't matter to them.
Im going to be a devils advocate and say say that age is not just a number. It's how old you are and certains thing comes associated with that Age. It could be maturity or certain thing where people from different ages will see differently. Ages categories people from child, teenagers, adult and elders. Age is not just a number because there's a clear difference. What alot of you guys are referring to when you say Age is just a number is when it comes to relationship or certain act that are intimate in nature. The reason Age is a factor to be considered is that at a certain age you are aware of certain thing in the world that those of a younger age are not. Age is not a number. There's a reason some people feel worried when they see an Age gap of over 30 between 2 people. It's not prejudice it an understanding that theree are dangerous people that hide in plain site. Peoples ignorance make it seem like the world is full of rainbows when it's not. I'm not here to say that all relationship or act of services with couples or people with a large Age gap are all bad. No there do exist beatiful and inspiring relationship that have a wide Age gap. However im saying that there dangerous people that take advantage of those that are younger, purely because they know of how unaware people can generally be.
Age was something I thought about at the very beginning but doesn't bother me anymore. The connection is what counts. I've cuddled with women of all different age groups and as long as both are comfortable with each other and have enough to talk about it works.