I've cuddled with women from 18 to around 70, and I've always utilized professionals. I just hit 60 myself. I think that the ones I never get responses from list themselves as 'professional' but I'm outside their self-determined age range or they are uncomfortable with the fact that I'm married. That's okay. It's their loss.
I have cuddled with older and a lot younger then me, I don’t have an issue, as I know going in it just for a cuddle.
My profile says I am open to all ages 18-122.
I am chronologically in my early 50s but I exercise regularly, eat right and take care of myself so I feel like I am still in my late 20s. I also work in an environment where the majority of people I interact with daily are in their 20s and 30s so I still feel “in touch” with people a lot younger than me.
With that said, I was still a little concerned that it would feel odd cuddling someone 20 - 30 years younger than me. However, it really did not matter. With all 3 of my cuddle partners, within minutes we were having great conversations and enjoying hugs and true human connection - our difference in age wasn’t an issue.
Why should age matter? As long as they respect my boundaries and bathe regularly, all ages are fine.
I will start off by saying I would snuggle with ladies from 18 up to 100. I am 45 myself and do like a little older say between 40 and 60 just because I feel there's more in common. But I won't rule out others to learn from too.does this make sense?
To me age is only a number, I put 18-100 for my age range.
shaking his cane Just you wait, youngsters.
But seriously. Time waits for no one. Age is irrelevant. Age is subjective. Do you connect with them? Do you both WANT to connect? Go with that and cuddle. Everything else is just noise and distraction. Do the cuddle things, do all the cuddle things, because tomorrow you or they may not be around.
☝️I'm with what's @Sideon said, time waits for no one just go for it . Don't be afraid of what's people think.
@Sideon , lol! "..shaking his cane"!! lolol!!! May I be totally honest? I've been analyzing my own discomfort with cuddling younger people. I've realized that it isn't so much the chronological age that's the problem, it's more the developmental maturity... along with my concerns about such a huge-seeming disconnect between our interests, conversationally. Does that make sense?
A warm, willing person is a warm, willing person. I get that. But we still have to talk to each other, at some point. If a person is a young first-born (leader), or is into performing music (creative), or can teach me about tech (geek), I'd imagine that I'd forget about his/her age. Still working on this, myself!
Either way, though, I hope you, @cameron44 keep the faith, persevere, and find a few Cuddlers who can appreciate you for all that you bring...no matter the age!
Given the context of this site, I don't think it's initially weird until someone makes it weird. As many have explained it better, it all just comes down to personal preference. All of which is valid. If the comfort is there, go for it. If not, those options are there for a reason.
I don't really give age much of a thought. It's more of the personality and emotional energy a person has.
That said, I don't think I would be real comfortable cuddling people under the age of 25 because of the emotional maturity level. I guess it would all depend on the connection. Same thing goes the other way if they are a grouchy old curmudgeon I suppose. But if that's the case why are they even here.
Nope, I have cuddled as young as 18 and as old as 80. Cuddling is a beautiful thing because people tend to really open up and share themselves with you in a way you would not get in other settings. I love meeting people who are very far apart in age, come from a different culture, belief system, etc. Hearing all these unique stories and different perspectives have really expanded my worldview and made me a more open-minded person. If someone who is very different from you wants to cuddle, think of it as a learning opportunity.
No.
I don’t think it’s weird cuddling with age gaps. My usual clientele age is 18+ years older than my current age(28) and I’ve had a few younger cuddlers as well. The only difference I notice, is that the younger ones seem more nervous.
Nah as long as they're decent people otherwise I don't think it matters.
Try not to be overly concerned with what others think as long as everyone is consenting adults. It’s only weird if it feels weird for you.
Age personality i dont mind. But when it comes to hight yes. Nothing wrong with it is just me ( since I'm short. 5'6) but I wouldn't cuddle w a girl way taller than me.
Lol @Chris04 ~ As one who is nearly 5" taller than you, and taller than all my cuddle partners but one, gotta say you're missing out! It may be weird for you when gazing up into another's eyes, but a horizontal plane neutralizes nearly all of that, and height isn't much of a factor when all pretzeled-up anyway ~ IMO.