How do you feel about this cuddle position

[Deleted User]Alternis (deleted user)
edited March 2017 in Pro Cuddling
The position is laying on top of someone, im not sure the exact name for it but in bjj its called full mount.

I like it because it's a good way to give a full frontal hug but out of the 6 pros ive seen only two were OK with this.

A third pro did it but she used forearm to create space and that position was basically driving her elbow thru my chest with her full body weight. Ouch

Heres kind of a pic except here the girl is trying to choke the dude out lmao http://mma.us/wp-content/uploads/2012/03/04-ottavia-bourdain-igor-gracie-jiu-jitsu-mount.jpg

Comments

  • [Deleted User]Victoria92 (deleted user)
    I'm not sure if this was meant to be funny but I laughed out loud when I saw this picture!!!
  • 4cuddles4cuddles
    @Victoria92. Me too!:
    Probably should have been warned! I'm struggling to breathe, laughing at this moment wasn't the smartest.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Worst sample pic ever hahah.

    I love the girl on top position. But not all snugglers do it cause too many clients get aroused and start acting like animals.
    But luckily a few pros recognize I don't do that and they will do it. It's fun.

  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    You're basically taking about the girl laying on top of you. This is my absolute favorite cuddle position by far, hands down. Sadly not all pros will do it and I really don't know why. I generally get one of two reactions when I ask a pro to cuddle in the position, either they'rw on top of me before I can even finish my sentence asking them to lay on top or they look at me and say they won't do it. I've had more pros that will do it than those that won't and I can't say I've ever had a forearm block though.
  • NinsianaNinsiana
    Hehe, it seems like a really fun postion. I am super shy and reserved, so I may not do that position the first time meeting a client. But session 2 or 3 and beyond for sure ^-^. But then again, I am also a weirdo lol
  • timmyleftwixtimmyleftwix
    My fav too, most so far have been okay with it. On a side note Rei needs to move to LA :). 
  • snuggle554321snuggle554321
    I don't do this position  with a new client either. After I've seen them more than once then it's a possibility but I have to get to know them first. 
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited March 2017
    Why not?
  • [Deleted User]Victoria92 (deleted user)
    OK so since this has taken a serious(ish) turn, I'll add my one cent (my thoughts aren't worth 2 cents). I actually did a similar position with one of my clients, his arms were around my back and my arms were next to his head and our heads were side by side. I'm really short and he was tall so my entire torso was on his chest. It was a nice position, not my favorite but I would do it again. ^^
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    It's amazing and a great position to exchange beautiful healing energy 
  • BrandiBrandi
    I dont mind getting on top its a really close and personal position, so I understand not wanting to do it with any and every client. but after building trust, and knowing they are in it for healing and not a semi lap dance sure I dont see why not. lol. :)
    To avoid awkwardness I kinda hover. I always have the chest to chest, I don't think that matters to me because its no different than just hugging but I don't place my crotch fully on theirs and If they try to push their crotch into yours; say something. Nobody should ever feel shy or awkward to point out if they are uncomfortable. Been there done that, not worth it. Il never not speak up for myself. :) best of luck!
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    One of the most amazing aspects of cuddling among many things is opening up and trusting. I ask my pros even the ones that I just met to give me the gift of trust and to know that my intentions are pure. Sink into the moment and just enjoy without feeling awkward, shy or uncomfortable. It's amazing and beautiful when you arrive at that place.
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Yea I do find it to be wonderful once you develop and earn trust from a snuggler. It's something that sometimes takes many sessions to develop but its worth it.

  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    ^^ I usually gain that trust during the first session :-p
  • greenearth2greenearth2
    Showoff
  • [Deleted User]masterofcuddle (deleted user)
    I usually gain the trust of a Pro with a few messages back and forth and/or a quick conversation on the phone :)
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    ^^ Jerks
  • [Deleted User]Unknown (deleted user)
    edited March 2017
    I had a cuddlee session with a pro last night and she happily laid on top of me when I asked her to. OMG most amazing cuddlenposition ever :-)
  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    I call that position "covering." You make like a blanket and cover the other person. It's one of my very favorite positions! I would not likely do it with someone on the very first cuddle meet, but by the second one there should be some trust established. I love to be covered. It's very comforting!

  • CarlosHuntCarlosHunt

    Waiting for a cover .....

  • BlueIrisBlueIris Mod

    @CarlosHunt Come to Alexandria, and you'll get one. :)

  • [Deleted User]chococuddles (deleted user)

    If it was a resting position then maybe.

    But if she tries to pin me down the wrestler in me will go for a reversal.

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