@kimberly77 in our culture we are not allowed to touch women, but 95% do including me , only 5%, dont , it's not major sin like adultery,it's minor,but what he did to you it's rude, he should be polite , and respectful. When i was back home I shake hands only with relatives rarely some dont want shake. But majority do. In relatives not outside, outside we can't talk to women if her brothers or family see you in big trouble. men should to lower their gaze . In Yemen we have death penalty for rapes, but still there's cases, because evilness runs in humans blood, we do have sexual harrasment there but the low very tough for offenders. Even if there's no low , tribes will shoot you.
This is what happens when u do harrasments in Yemen 🤣 These boys harrass girls and wait for them outside school
I would do overnights with a regular client who I had established trust with, and we both were clear on the platonic boundaries.
The question is not whether I think it's too much, but whether YOU think it's too much. Do you trust yourself to be platonic and respectful and deal with arousal appropriately? Do you trust them? I would not do this with a random person, but my comfort levels are not your comfort levels.
And who knows maybe after 8 straight hours of cuddling you'll slip into another realm of consciousness, think of what you could be missing!
(Oh wait no, that's called sleeping)
I could never do an overnight, simply because my chronic pain leads to lots of tossing and turning and very little sleep. I've also been diagnosed with PTSD, which contributes to frequent night terrors.
@kimberly77 I'd be so happy to meet you at a cuddle convention! Lets do it. Feel free to look over my profile and put the same ideas into your own words. I put a lot of work into saying things in my own way and would prefer it if you did not copy paste anything. I know it's hard to figure out how to lay everything out.
Re: boners. I designed an infographic that people are free to borrow/use. Boner conversations "pop up" so often, I've found it useful to just have this already written out.
Hi would like to say with 2 of the people I met for cuddles we ended up falling asleep together, we were both enjoying the cuddling and each others company and in that moment didn't seem strange to fall asleep in the same bed. I mean that's what it was we cuddled then went to sleep lol. An amazing experience and if you get the chance to do the same with someone you trust you should try it 😊
@MxSmith you are doing the lords work with that infographic
Some cuddlers do it and some don't. I don't spend the night with a cuddler though. But I don't necessarily see it as a problem as long as it isn't sexual and one respects the other.
I would be more concerned with farting or morning breath than I would a boner 🤣
Found an amazing overnight cuddler. Being new to cuddling I thought I could get some enthusiast to practice on. So I messaged this person we had cuddled once before and he was very respectful and I invited him to a cabin and we had a delightful time lots and lots of cuddling I could keep my guard down no boundary crossed totally fun. I would never solicit enthusiast unless I cuddled them for free. I actually do just like cuddling and I am not really on here for the money so to have a couple free customers is nice. Especially when they’re so wonderful like this one. With that being said please don’t message me for free cuddling.😬
I was just about to get off the site because I thought I couldn’t find any real cuddlers. But then I thought I really like all the people that I met like superman cuddles, Sheena, Ohio Mike, and so many others. So I made my profile so restrictive so many boundaries that I can stay on here😝😬 If I cuddle once a month so be it. There’s always the free cuddlers that are really sweet, plus my cuddle friends Before I came on the site.
@kimberly77 🥰🥰🥰🥰
@kimberly77 awwwwww….🤗! Thank you for being here with us !
What would you charge for overnight cuddle session? I’m still debating if I want to but I don’t know where to start. I am also a bit nervous as I have had some pretty harsh experiences. Taken two long breaks, come back and first guy made it 15 minutes before asking for more. I’ve started expressing in messaging that any cuddles are definitely platonic.
I wouldn't do an overnight with a pro because it's like paying your rent twice (or yours and theirs). If you spend the majority of the time sleeping, what's the point?
I think only seasoned customers ones you’ve trusted. My overnight rate is so good because I feel like I’ll be sleeping a lot, but I really do you have to trust someone. If you have a client that you really trust I would give it huge discount because you’re sleeping anyway but that’s just me because I don’t really do it for money. Overnight doesn’t really take time out of my schedule. But trust me I’m no expert I’m new to this. I was just blessed with a great guy.
Meeting people at cuddle parties is a great way because they really know the rules and understand the boundaries.
@MrMarkAndrew the point is going to sleep next to (or even cuddling) somebody, and waking up similarly. Which is what humans are designed to do, broadly speaking. And it's really nice.
The point is that if somebody is going to be asleep next to you, even a professional, they are demonstrating a lot of trust. Being trusted is a very valuable experience. For some people, a very healing experience. For others, a new experience.
The point is that sleeping with another person is the default in our society. Not being able to participate in that default activity makes some people feel excluded from society. Sleeping with somebody, even a professional for one night, means you are not excluded.
The point is that you are sleeping with somebody. There is a person who is willing to accept you as a sleeping human being, even if they are being paid. You are never more yourself than when you are asleep, and somebody is (in principle) bearing witness to that. Is willing to bear witness to that. It's a powerful message from the world to you.
And then of course there are the individual reasons.
I'm afraid I don't get your comment about rent.
@CuddleDuncan very well said!! What I think @Mr. Mark Andrews is saying, is that if you cuddle overnight it could end up being $800 for an eight hour session my price for eight hours is only 280. And I would only cuddle someone overnight who’s been a customer of mine for a while. I have to change that on my profile. Because you’re right it’s someone you need to trust so you can keep your guard down and relax and go to sleep. But with my sleeping partner we woke up different times in the night and we recuddled. I have another overnight cuddle from a trusted friend thank goodness for cozy cuddli friends. I just got him on the site but he’s somebody that I can cuddle also.