When you show up to a client for a session especially a new one I sometimes worry about how I start the session. Like for example at times I’ve caught myself kinda opening the door and asking them or allowing them to dictate what they want in our session at first because of my lack of experience but other times because I haven’t asked enough about my client prior to the session. I don’t know if others feel this way but I have found that when I ask a lot of questions before accepting a booking proposal with a client it has allowed me to decide and prep for the session before accepting. When I go to a client with a game plan I bring my game face and though it may not sound like a very comforting environment for the client it in fact is not only comforting for the cuddler but for the client because when we don’t have to be on high alert for perves -we are able to give 100% to our game plan. My game face basically is how I introduce and carry myself from the second I get there. Like I make sure not to come off too friendly or eager to please instead I make sure I act like a professional who has done this enough times to dictate the session after knowing what and who my client is.
I don’t know if this is helpful but I just thought I’d share how I think I’ve dealt with or have avoided situations like ur friend did and I can honestly picture myself slapping the crap out of a client if he did try that which I think would only make things worse but I’m glad I haven’t had to deal with that yet and hope I don’t. I always send the name location and time of my sessions to my sister and a male friend before just to feel a lil secure and my male friend literally blows my phone up when the session time has completed and it has helped a lot