One part of my cuddle dream has come true, and that was to heal enough to be able to cry in the presence of another human being. When I did so, I was able to receive comfort in a way that was almost entirely new to me.
A current wish is that I could drop everything and cuddle all my favorite cuddlers, one after another. Some are ones I've already cuddled, and some I haven't met in person yet. (You know who you are, I think!)
A future dream is to be able to give back the love and acceptance that I've felt so strongly from cuddle partners and on this forum. There's enough joy in my heart to go around, and there's no sense holding it inside.
@CuddleDuncan It comes from next to no physical contact with other human beings. The closest I get is hugs in June, late September thought the beginning of November, and December, at my seasonal haunt job, and that's only on the weekends.
I would like to through-hike the Appalachian Trail. If I had a cuddle buddy with me, that would be amazing!
@cookiecrumb looking for those ✨sweaty cuddles✨
@cookiecrumb that is so scenic. Wish I could do it now but I shattered my ankle, foot and lower leg and arthritis has set in.
@Sashamcgee not quite all of them would be sweaty, haha. My plan is spring to fall, north to south, so the beginning will be quite cool, and perhaps the end as well, if it takes about 8 months.
@FunCartel I bet the arthritis sucks. I have some minor ankle issues, but I hope it's not to prohibitive to making the trek.
@cookiecrumb you'll have plenty of time to make up for it in those summer months 🤭🤭🤭
I'm fascinated by urban decay—by decrepit buildings where people once lived, where workers toiled to provide care for their families, where schoolchildren were pushed toward a future that offered only collapsing architecture, dust, and an echo of life.
I like to imagine an intersection choked by vegetation; grass pierces the pavement like clusters of spires, moss creeps over the rusted remains of vehicles—left behind like monstrous carapaces, and vines climb skyward on monuments to a time before.
And in that intersection there would be a tent. The glow of a lantern would infect the vicinity, a transient instance of remission.
So, basically, I'd like to camp out and cuddle on Hashima Island, in Japan.
One day, perhaps.
Gotta go with the road trip
@xandriarain ❤️ I love so much of this ... Especially, to shift the world through cuddle 🌎 (hugging individuals prone to violence and reconnecting couples). I am with you on this--Thank you, so beautiful!
@sillysassy-That sounds awesome, too.. Oh, so many things could go in this bucket. Northern lights, hot springs , road trips .
@FunCartel , thanks for a great thread! You have me thinking, now .. 🤔
In regard to cuddling on the trail:
Don't sweat the petty things, and don't pet the sweaty things.
@JoyfulHeart well said.
@HogboblinZwei I discovered a place like that by accident on a three day survivalist kayaking/camping trip. It was hauntingly beautiful.
I just opened this discussion to take a look at the chatter, but "group cuddling" brings back a funny memory:
Falling into 😆 a cuddle-puddle at the Rainbow Gathering in VT, some number of years ago.
The kinda thing that could only happen at such a gathering -- tripping over something in the dark, and falling..... onto a pile of six or so people happily spooning together on the dark ground.
There. Little story. Hope it amuses y'all.
@Mela_B
Oooh, that sounds rad.
Speaking of rad, I would totally camp and cuddle with someone in Chernobyl. Unfortunately, this isn't a realistic goal to have.
@HogboblinZwei I imagine if you got your wish to cuddle in Chernobyl you would be absolutely glowing afterwards.
@xandriarain "I often have clients who are not getting the touch they need in their marriage/relationship and I would love to be able to work with both partners and help them re-integrate touch into their relationship."
I think this one is a great idea and would be possible to add on as an offered service to your existing business. There's a course on Udemy called "Moving Into Intimacy" that was really interesting and could be helpful in this endeavor as well as reading and internalizing the 5 love languages book.
My cuddle bucket list is really just to get my butt in gear and really do the work to make cuddling a thing here in central/northern Maine.
This is a wonderfully fascinating thread! So many great ideas!
I'm relatively new to platonic cuddling, but I'm not exaggerating when I say that it has changed my life, and perhaps its possibly even saved it. I have no big goals at this point, but I do want to spread the word to increase cuddle awareness and acceptance to those around me. And of coarse, to make the world a better place of loving acceptance, one cuddle at a time.
I would love to do a cuddle puddle! A pile of people that I feel comfortable, warm, and safe with all in one group on a bed
In a hot air balloon or while watching the northern lights, between these two 🤣🤣
I’d love to try two or three cuddle buddies at once or a couple. Taking turns cuddling each other. I think just feeling enveloped from all sides would be amazing!!!
Cross-country cuddle road trip + train trip. Bonus: cuddling on a long train trip—have done this once and would love to repeat
My bucket list is simple: just to find a long term cuddle partner.
@xandriarain someone said to be careful with the raccoon. Be careful with the dictators. Nobel goals though. 💕☺️💕☺️
Well, the cuddle bucket list is still unfulfillable. Nearly no females near my age that are near me respond, even new users! They just look at the profile and then don’t respond even though one meet their criteria preference if they have that set up. It seems like many join just for the sake of having a profile and then they don’t really want what the website mentions. I think what would make sense is plan cuddling events in this website ran by local moderators and/or cuddle party facilitators to make it less awkward because for some weird reason, it isn’t as awkwardless/unawkward as the purpose of the site claims people will perceive it to be. I almost left the website (almost deleted my account) like twice.
I would be interested in a group cuddle if there are any in NJ let me know
I would like to plan a road trip with my RV and cuddle state to state and meet as many people as I could.
3 amazing ladies at the same time
@waynewv same! Except for the RV part
To do doubles with @MissAdventurous !!! So excited for tomorrow!!! 🎉 🥰🥰💕💕