Hello,
I'm totally new here.
I came across the professional cuddlers on youtube and was truly inspired.
Also, before that I got in touch with the nofap movement and read Marnia Robinson about Karezza ( non-orgasmic sexual relationships ).
The Wim Hof Method, along with the knowledge that I might be "gifted" ( check out my profile for more on the matter ) really were game changers for me and pushed me in a direction I really liked.
I knew of many things that I was quite uncomfortable with.
When in a relationship, I loved the touch, closeness, warmth, peace, contact, meaning, beauty, but dreaded sex as "the end-goal", while she was REALLY into it ( which made me really sad and quite scared of engaging in contact with other women after experiencing this behaviour ).
Thing is : I knew I could be close to people free from needing the orgasm at all costs ( which in a sense - I truly believe - can destroy relationships ).
These many discoveries on the internet I am really appreciating and I am super-happy to live in the era where knowing of alternatives like these to the main way to understand human contact are shown and experimented with.
I didn't yet find too many cuddle buddies nearby since I live in a small place. I am quite sad to know that the possibility exists while not finding it close to home ( especially because of limited means to travel on top of it ).
So, what's your story ?
How did you get to know about all of that.
How did it turn your life up-side down ( or how didn't it do so ) ?
I'd be curious to read your views on the matter.
Cheers.