Profile Pictures not matching the person.

cuddletime1234cuddletime1234
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So, I been having some sessions and I will say 70% the profile picture does not match the current look of the person or perhaps a lot of make up in the pictures and when you meet in person it looks like the profile pictures they were taking like 1 years ago, does this happen only to me? Or is this a común thing? I am curious to read your opinions. I just wanted to share this. Thanks everyone and happy cuddle’s.

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  • jplemmonjplemmon

    I wouldn't say they don't match but there are definitely many out-of-date pics in my experience. Also, I've had quite a few instances of profiles saying someone is in their 20s but then happen to mentioned they are in their 30s. I wouldn't have minded seeing the real person but misleading customers is kind of annoying.

  • GreatHornedOwlGreatHornedOwl

    I thought that this was supposed to be strictly platonic. Why so much concern about photos?

    If I had to choose between a woman with no photo at all, or a woman who didn't take the time to enter anything in "about me." I'd gladly pick the one without a photo.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited February 2022

    Don’t know if you’re referring to that poor girl that left you a karma , but she’s about to receive a bunch of profile views today lol (regardless if its her or not). hopefully she views it as nice publicity & not unwanted attention …

    Let’s see …… online world 🌎

    I think virtually everyone (including myself) want to use their best pics … Regardless if its social media / dating sites / or platonic - cuddling sites …

    If looks are really important (or a deciding factor for you) … ask for that FaceTime lol …. but some pics could be super misleading lol

    But for cuddling it shouldn’t matter what someone looks like … but at the same time I’ve been there before where I just wanted to cuddle someone just cause they’re hot, they look like pinup models lol … so I’ve been there, but looks is not even on my top 3 list of things I look for to cuddle with someone.

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    but I hope this is not a , “let’s shame some ladies for not looking exactly 100% like they do in their pics” type of thread …… I can onlyyyyyyyyy imagine the amount of bookings pros have accepted to remain professional & enthusiasts have accepted in the spirit of cuddling that left them thinking wtf 😫

  • supadupasupadupa
    edited February 2022

    Hello @GreatHornedOwl im not sure what platonic only has to do with a person using in some instances not their real photo. I have had 2 people show up who used fake photos and even admitted to me the photos weee fake because they wanted privacy. Both were professional and both are no longer on the site. Could be someone is lying. If they lie about the photo what else could they be lying about. That just for the fake photos.
    Since you’re saying it platonic only which it is not the point, if you were chatting with someone who used a woman’s photo or didn’t use a photo and then a man showed up would you say oh it’s platonic only so I’ll cuddle anyway even if they lied.

  • [Deleted User]WriterGF (deleted user)

    There is a difference between a fake photo -- a picture of someone who is not you -- and using a photo that is not necessarily the most recent. Again, while this is NOT a dating site, using older photos is very common on dating sites. If it's something that concerns you, do a Zoom call before meeting in person.

  • HollydollhugsHollydollhugs
    edited February 2022

    I completely understand what you are talking about. I had a virtual session with someone a while back. Looks don’t determine if I meet with someone in person or virtually. This person looked 20 years younger in their photo than they did in the video call. It didn’t matter to me at all, I was just not expecting that. I thought they were going to look like the profile pic. I try to post recent photos of myself, because I do look different than I did 5 and 10 years ago. I see what you are talking about. I too want to be able to identify the person I’m meeting with, that is the only reason for a picture.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike

    😂imo we are making progress here on CC.

    We are actually meeting people now instead of no one will meet me. Now they don’t look like their pics and they may be 20’s but really 30’s …but cmon people ! We are meeting people !!! Yay 😁

  • alexis831alexis831

    @WriterGF exactly!!!!

  • RezzRezz

    @OhioMike
    Right. Lol
    Boo hoo my cuddler didn't wear a face full of makeup to a platonic cuddle session. The absolute horror. 😱

    I look like my pics but I don't get dolled up to cuddle anyone. I'm sure most of the pros here don't care about being cute eye candy. I shower, brush my teeth, wear deodorant and clean clothes. Hygienic practices that actually matter.

  • Sweetcuddler82Sweetcuddler82
    edited February 2022

    Wow okay this is coming from a guy who is not physically attractive at all . Wow didnt you tell me I looked like jlo? I would take a look in your mirror and tell yourself to humble yourself. Idk what your displeasure was but trust me you're no supermodel yourself. So stay humble.

    This is a personal attack and, moreover, an attack on their looks. Please don’t do this again. - Babichev

  • RezzRezz

    😄🍿

  • RezzRezz

    @cuddles_ndream

    I have had more than my fair share of clients arriving and me not remotely recognizing them. Clients using photos from the Bush administration is not unheard of. I don't request photos for physical attractiveness, but to be able to identify you when I meet you outside my home or in a hotel lobby and for my personal safety.

  • Sweetcuddler82Sweetcuddler82
    edited February 2022

    Idk if he's talking about me or not but since everyone assumed it was me bc I was kind enough to leave him a positive karma when I didn't have to. Regardless if it's me or not he needs to stay humble bc I saw him in person and he's not Don Juan. My photos are real and recent. If he has an issue with my looks like I said he needs to really humble himself bc if this were a dating site he would've been rejected off his pics alone. This is supposed to be platonic cuddling if u want someone to date go on a dating site.

    Can you point out exactly where it has been suggested this has anything to do with you personally? And aside from that, we do not allow personal attacks. Stay on the topic, don’t make it personal about anyone. Thank you. - Babichev

  • cuddletime1234cuddletime1234

    Thanks, everyone who responded, honestly the reason why I start this discussion is because like some people agree with me some what, now I know I am not the only one, with all my respect for sweetcuddler82, don’t take this personal, honestly I felt like we had a great time in our cuddle session, is just like someone mentioned if I am meeting someone I would like to recognize the person , I don’t care about looks as I am not a model and I don’t think none of us are. So again this was just sharing my opinion nothing personal. Happy cuddles.

  • xandriarainxandriarain

    This is why I always video chat before meeting. Even if a photo is real and recent, angles, lighting, and makeup make a huge difference. Also, people look different in a still shot vs. moving. I don't care what my clients look like, but I want to make sure they are the same person who booked me.

  • Sweetcuddler82Sweetcuddler82
    edited February 2022

    So u did not recognize me ? I guess I looked better than you thought since you said I looked like Jennifer Lopez, kind of an confusing message you're sending. I have men of all races and ages that think I'm a very beautiful woman. All of my photos are taken within the year so I'm not sure what you don't think you recognized. And I assumed we had a positive session until I was messaged about your complaints on this forum and me being the only kind one kind enough to leave you a karma they assumed it was me you were talking about. I didn't recognize u either your photos are far away.

    Sorry, but you’re being put in Time Out for 3 days. No more personal attacks. Period. - Babichev

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @OhioMike 😅😂😂

    @Rezz

    I shower, brush my teeth, wear deodorant and clean clothes. Hygienic practices that actually matter. 💯 💯 💯

    ^^^!!!

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    I’ve been around a long time and I would have to say that my cuddlers on average have been prettier in person than their pics.

  • [Deleted User]KYtransplant (deleted user)

    All real photos. All taken within two weeks of one another. Seriously, women are judged on enough shit.



  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)

    👁👄👁 🍿

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited February 2022

    @KYtranspant i heart your pics 🌌

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream
    edited February 2022

    .

  • SoftHairForDaysSoftHairForDays
    edited February 2022

    Catfishing? Not ok.

    People putting their best pics up on here? That's normal. Don't we ALL want to have our best pics up? Who puts their worst pics up?

    I do a Zoom call before an in person session, to be sure the person is who they say they are, so I don't need to worry about catfishing and so they can see what I look like during the call. I don't care what my cuddlers look like (I welcome all) but I do care that they are who they say they are (and not using someone else's pics).

    @KYtranspant has it right - women are judged on enough 💩. 🤦‍♀️ If people don't want to hire me based on my looks, they don't need to hire me - that's up to them. I know I'm beautiful, so what others think about me doesn't really matter.

    All of my pics are pretty recent, with some being as recent as 2/13/22.

  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)

    Oh! Another selfie thread!? 🍕💩

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @SweetiSammi I noticed you all swagged out the other day with the old school tims 🥾 / the tongues out / & the suede tag attached like a true New Yorker 😉

  • [Deleted User]ClubSamwiches (deleted user)

    @cuddles_ndream Sept-May the timbs stay ON #eastcoastbaby #charmcity

  • cuddles_ndreamcuddles_ndream

    @SweetiSammi 🥂😎

  • Mela_BMela_B

    I'm beautiful and don't care what anyone else thinks personally, so I use whatever photos I like, and show up to cuddle sessions however I am feeling that day. I am not eye candy - I'm there to nurture my clients and make them feel seen, cared for, and special.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    @KYtranspant ~ You're amazing!!

    Honestly, I don't care much about looks and hope to heck anyone I might cuddle up to feels the same. It just seems so shallow, compared to my major concerns list... Can we deal with each other's vibe and touch preferences and did we remember our toothbrushes and to put on deodorant??

    Also, posting/updating pics is a chore when you're as photo averse as I am. Lucky for me, my public one here is just my eyes so not much change will be happening there/it's not misleading. Want more pics? Become a friend and ask.

    Plus, for the most part, unless we're watching a movie, my eyes are gonna be closed anyway...

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