For what reason would you terminate the session?

What could a Pro/Client do during a session that would make you leave immediately without explanation?

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  • Cross boundaries or make the other feel uncomfortable in any way, this will be a bit different from person to person. Depending on the situation I’d try to give some benefit of the doubt.

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    As a pro, always verbally and in writing go over the rules and your/their own personal boundaries and explain ahead of time that you will speak up if you feel a boundary is being pushed, and they should speak up as well. Tell them in the beginning that if at any time you feel unsafe, you will end the session. You can even give room for learning by reminding them of your boundaries a certain agreed upon number of times (could be 3 strikes) for more "minor" boundaries.

    Myself, I would abruptly end a session if after going over rules and boundaries, the client tried to grope me, dry hump me, or if he started touching himself or whipping it out. That doesn't mean I'll end it if he has a boner.

  • edited March 2022

    Myself I would terminate immediately if the environment was somewhat hostile ( in this case a hosting pro) . Perhaps they might have a viscious dog or a prohibited breed of canine very aggressively sniffing at “ the spot” or showing a aggressive defensive attitude suggesting that the dog is defending a “ turf”. I always try to remember to ask what pets would I be encountering at the session ( and if such pet is licensed) sometime I forget . I would at least leave giving them an explanation .

  • edited March 2022

    Recently, because the client started humping my leg. Farther back some guy just kept constantly talking about sex and sexual things he did with other cuddlers (I reported him but he's still on here)

    Essentially getting gropy or talking about sexual subjects. I reserve the right to terminate at any time if my body is going into fight or flight response.

  • Sorry to hear these men are acting like pukes. It is very clear to me what the boundaries are and the nature platonic cuddling. If these men are looking for a sex workers then go FIND a sex worker. Don’t f-up the good vibes here!

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