Too bad I couldn’t make money off of people viewing my profile lol

KozyKimKozyKim
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I get the same maybe six or seven people that view my profile once a week, but they never leave a message. I’ve inquired of a few of them and they said they get comfort it just looking at my pictures. So it seems like my pictures are cuddling them for free. I’m just joking around but I kind a wish that I got more cuddles instead of people just looking.😬😬😬

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  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    Lol. Wouldn't that be something! Your pics are really nice.

  • RadiantHugsRadiantHugs Mod

    Awww @KozyKim yeah your pictures do provide some oxytocin by themselves I agree! FWIW most people kick the tires for a long time before jumping into anything. It's pretty vulnerable for most people (and certainly most men) to seek out a pro to get their basic touch needs met, so lot of people hesitate at first. I certainly did. It's normal.

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    Window-shopping. I repeatedly check out the same websites (or brick & mortar stores) without buying anything. Someday, they may bite. Maybe they're saving up. Or you could block them if you're creeped out that maybe they're just getting off on your pics on a regular basis.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    I did say to someone why don’t you screenshot my pictures and then you can look all the time and I won’t know. But I was just joking around. It’s nice to drop a message though. I don’t expect them to message me back-and-forth, but they could say someday I would like to cuddle you when I’m closer to your area or meet you someday, or I like your profile. I guess people are shy, I’m not shy. So maybe it’s hard for me to understand.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @achetocuddle Thank you very much.

  • peachinthecitypeachinthecity

    I’ve experienced the same thing! I usually message them, asking if there’s anything they want to know/if they’re interested to just reach out but I generally don’t get a response or something short.

    And I’ve gotten, very often, those who just say I have nice pictures and that’s all. I can understand being hesitant or testing the waters, but it’s gotten to where the same accounts visits everyday.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    I guess because we’re on a site that gives love and attention and connection to people they know there’s more to us than just our pictures so they probably do get comfort. I just had a inquiry and the guy said he misses looking at someone in the eyes. And so I think sometimes people just visualize a cuddle with a person from the pictures. I’m not saying this to people that visit my profile once and then never see them again it’s just a repeat viewers.. I guess I should be honored that someone thinks my pictures are comforting.

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    When you are very lonely it can be very comforting to see the same face every day, even if it's just a photo of a stranger on the internet. The advantage of the stranger photo is that you get to pick, and presumably people choose one based on some unconscious drive.

    Screenshotting the photo doesn't work. It's kind of cheating. That's just looking at the same photo everyday, not the same person. It has to be a real person with a real photo, in a real live account. Those kind of features make it "feel" like a person.

    Some of those who don't message or even reply may never be able to afford a cuddle session, and simply don't want to waste your time on a non-client. Others will just be too shy.

    If the same account visits every day, that's probably a very lonely person. If you're thinking of changing your pictures, it would be kind to message and ask if there are any they'd particularly like you to keep up. Say explicitly "it's fine not to reply" and don't bind yourself to their opinion. It's quite a wrench when you go to look at your favourite person and they aren't there any more.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @CuddleDuncan That’s really good in-site, Yeah I was joking when I said that I would like to make money off of them looking at my pictures. I like your thoughts though. I wish I had time to talk to each person that visited me over and over but I don’t really have the time. But I could exchange a few kind words to that person. Maybe I should message more of these people that visit me.

  • blisscuddlesblisscuddles

    @KozyKim Sounds like you live up to your name..Kozy comfort to those who visit you.

  • TheBestCuddlrTheBestCuddlr
    edited March 2022

    Gone.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @blisscuddles Thanks that is my aim to make people feel comfortable and loved.

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    I view profiles multiple times in case I have to pick them out of a line-up.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @FunCartel that’s a good one. One person messaged me and said that they may visit me more than once because I change my profile picture and they don’t recognize me as the same person so I guess I got a cut people a break. I’m not upset with anybody I think it’s nice that people visit your profile. I don’t think I get the same visits that other pros get sometimes they get the same person every day. Sometimes I just wish they would say what they liked about my profile or what they don’t like. Any critiquing would be good. I honestly think my profile is a little too wholesome for most people. But I’d love to keep it that way because I have found some really good people to cuddle with my profile so I’d rather have quality over quantity.

  • edawsewedawsew

    Hey @Moxytocin why must you keep taking innocent comments and turning them into something sexual and negative? Where I come from they call that s**t stirring.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @KozyKim Your profile IS pleasantly wholesome. I've tried to keep mine wholesome for the same reason, while also being plainspoken about what doesn't interest me in a cuddle partner. Your good heart shines in your profile.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @achetocuddle sometimes I unknowingly cuddle married men because I can’t always know if they’re married or not, and even sometimes I know they’re married. So I want to be that person that if their wife found out I would have a clear Conscience on my end. I’ve had some really amazing cuddle sessions because of my profile.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @KozyKim I feel the same way! I've gotta have a clear conscience. Really glad you've had amazing cuddles. :)

  • john5555john5555

    I live in an area where very few are active on this site. I don’t log in too often. What happens is this funny cycle of me looking at who has looked at my profile. I look and then realize that they’re the same as last time. They then look because I looked. Ha. Maybe this is happening?

  • [Deleted User]Moxytocin (deleted user)

    @edawsew WTH?

  • sillysassysillysassy

    I had to look at @john5555 and then saw he was in Canada.... The WEST side of Canada....

    THEN I had to go back again and be reminded of his fabulous profile pic....

    THEN I had to go back again to see if it was PINK and black tights with a bumble bee costume or is it was YELLOW and black tights. 😂😂😂

    Half the time I look at a profile is because I want to see the picture more closely or see where they're from. Then I'm reminded that they aren't in my travel path till NEXT year!

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life
    edited March 2022

    Lol ~ @Moxytocin ~ Yeah... "Why must you keep taking innocent comments and turning them into something sexual and negative?" gosh!!

    Really... And all in your one and only comment in the thread where the most provacative thing you said was, "Or you could block them if you're creeped out that maybe they're just getting off on your pics on a regular basis."

    Golly! I can't believe you haven't been timed out for your behavior yet ~ Sheesh!
    Stop "s**t stirring" all the time... 🙄

    😘

    adding:
    Ah... it's because of the back and forth in the, "Is this REALLY for cuddling? I feel like I'm missing something..." thread...

    And all that above the "adding:" should be read with heavy sarcasm (in case that wasn't clear)...

  • KozyKimKozyKim
    edited March 2022

    @Moxytocin i’m not mad at you for saying that. Because while I’m cuddling I feel like they are adjusting a lot😬. So who knows what’s happening with my pictures. I try not to think about that, but you do have a good point there I don’t feel like blocking anybody. But sometimes I wish I could keep them from looking at my profile over and over without giving me a message. And I don’t know why I feel that way. I guess I just hope everybody’s on the up and up and they’re just admiring my pictures and they’re thinking good thoughts of me . Or wishing that they could meet me. Or that I bring them comfort. I don’t think you meant any ill will by saying that. Peace everyone☮️

  • ShaneSchruteShaneSchrute

    @KozyKim hey! I used to live in northeast Ohio. If I was still there I’d certainly want to cuddle. :)

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @Syins That’s very kind of you. Will you be going St. Louis meeting greet? I hope to meet a lot of cuddlers there.

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    @KozyKim I'm thinking good thoughts about you. YOU are on the up and up, genuine, caring, understanding, don't take offense easily. For me you embody the true spirit and intention of platonic cuddling. You make me smile.

  • KozyKimKozyKim

    @achetocuddle Wow what a lovely thought you have towards me. I’ll just have to screenshot that and read that to myself when Cuddling gets dim. You sure know how to make someone’s day. Thank you so much

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    I really feel this way. And you have made me feel good by wanting to refer to my words later. :) Good evening everyone. I'm tired from all this thoughtful composing. Lol.

  • Bella_SeraBella_Sera

    Ouch, @TheBestCuddlr. Third degree burns 🔥🔥🔥

  • UKGuyUKGuy

    @KozyKim -Visitors to your profile probably don't message you because they have learned from past experience that messages almost never get a reply.

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