I wish to find someone who would hold me for dear life.
I just realized I’m too soft. Almost always at the end of my sessions, the ladies always say “come here” and pull me in tighter and reposition my body to have me smother them. It’s GREAT. I guess I’m still a little shy lol.
@Nature_Lover_ I love your first comment. I always have something to learn from you. Thanks for sharing
I love both! Laying together, softly caressing each others arms and back, playing with hair or massaging the head, and tight hugs and squeezes are all usually a part of my cuddle sessions.
I think they both go together when the time calls for it
Definitely a tight cuddler. I love feeling a client wrap their arms around me and squeeze me as tight as they can. I think it has to do with the fact that I'm tall and mentally have always felt I was the size of The Rock, when I'm not. Years of being told "You're so big" took a toll on my psyche.
Totally both! I have moments of needing that soft embrace and others where a deep heavy hug is just what the soul needed. All depends on the moment.
@JazzyPants we would be a great fit! I love super tight hugs and squeezing. I love giving great big bear hugs!
I initially thought this was another boner thread
I like both, sometimes it feels nice to be held tightly and other times soft cuddles are great. It is very situational for me.
I like a mix of both. It all depends on the position we're in at the time. It all depends on what each of us need from the other in the moment. I think it also depends on your comfort level with your cuddle partner. If it's your first cuddle, soft cuddles with a little "comfort zone" works well until your trust level grows. Someone latching on and holding you for dear life without any prior warning could make it a little uncomfortable for someone. Open communication about your needs can help with that.
I agree with you guys on the stance that both are nice to experience in different situations.
Personally, I do tend to find that my affection style is much more gentle and enveloping in nature for the most part. I do like to be held tight though! 🌻🌳
Tight hugs are nice, but for cuddling, mostly soft. 😊
~ Sunset Snuggles
I'm a tight hugger definitely, but (I think) I can soft cuddle ok
I like soft touch and hugs. but also love sneaking in some tight strong hugs too.
I'm flexible
I don't get cuddles, so no idea.
both
I guess soft cuddler but I feel like it depends on mood, chemistry and the person. If we have a deeper bond I might sometimes want tighter cuddles or just to be closer.
@Caseyishiding Yep.