I love this! I would cuddle you in a heartbeat. I’m gay, but any platonic touch is healing.
I don’t know if I’ve ever said this here, but I would actually love to offer previous bullies the chance to make amends and heal their hearts by showing tenderness to the same kind of person they were cruel to in the past. My message to those straight guys is “I’ll be your partner in atonement, bro.” 😁
I had not until you mentioned it, but I just googled it and am definitely intrigued!
@nurturingman thank you for posting a response. I agree that doing those types of scenarios are a little bit like a “do over” and while it doesn’t make the previous behavior disappear or be okay, it does help to alleviate secondary hurt that is the result of realizing how seriously you did/could have hurt others.
Hopefully society will continue to move in the right direction.
I am old school. I just cuddle women. I don't want guys cuddling me. I have 0 interest in it. I also like women who just cuddle men.
@nycuddlerny no one is asking you to do anything you don’t want to do or don’t feel comfortable doing. It was just a thank you directed to the males who both feel comfortable doing it and engage in that practice. Everyone should have their boundaries respected.
Oh I know. I was just commenting.
No worries at all, friend. I’m all for communication and conversation, I just don’t want anyone feeling pressured out of their comfort zone. That’s important to me in terms of physical contact and personal space. If it isn’t healing for you then don’t do it.
@Cuddle_RN oh it's not just the younger generation being more accepting. I'm seeing a change in some of the older folks too . My mother has used her experience as a grandmother to someone who isnt hetero and dates trans people.to help my aunt better understand and come to terms with her grandchild coming out as trans, and is now living as a man. Everything has a trickle effect.
@pmvines, that's great ❤️
@pmvines you have a great leader in your Grandmother. Kudos to her!!!!