ABDL-Cuddeling in diapers

LittleMan22LittleMan22
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Am I the only person and is it strange that I have a strong urge to wear diapers and cuddle with someone. It feels so right in a way I can’t explain. It makes me feel loved and relaxed too. Is there anyone around NH who doesn’t judge and would cuddle?

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  • BrandiBrandi

    Nothing wrong with you or that this isnt the place for it though. Try fetlife.

  • [Deleted User]TonyKCMO (deleted user)

    Hi Littleman. It is not something i am persoanlly into, however i have heard other people talk about it. So, it isn't ONLY you.

    I will advise you that one of the biggest challenges people on thisnsite have found is a limited nunber of cuddlers in their area. The more specific your requirements, the fewer available cuddlers you may find.

  • [Deleted User]HallOfFreedom (deleted user)

    This isn't a fetish site

  • LoreleiLorelei

    So... here's the thing about that: The policy for cuddling on this site requires that you be in modest clothes / stay dressed. If you're wearing a diaper underneath your clothing so you're abiding by site policy, no one has a right to judge you for what makes you personally comfortable, and frankly, they don't need to know. You do you. The problem isn't that you want to wear them, or even that you want to wear them while cuddling, it's just that there's an implied "and nothing else" in that sentence, which would be an issue because it would go against the policy about staying clothed.

    I would like to say that I've learned that ABDL isn't always a "fetish" thing. I have personally known people who use the mind-set specifically for therapy and do nothing sexual with it whatsoever, and I encourage people who don't know about therapeutic safe spaces to approach them with an open mind. No need to try it for yourself, just give the other person the benefit of the doubt that there are logical reasons for how they live their life. People assume that cuddling is always a sexual thing, too, but it's not and I would also encourage people with that misconception to look closer.

    Speaking as a professional cuddler, if a client wanted to have a therapy session where they would prefer to act 'child-like' and dress (modestly) in a child like way, and they needed a motherly figure to hold them for a while and talk with them because it addressed a psychological / emotional need in their lives--perhaps one they did not have fulfilled enough in childhood--I would honestly be okay with that.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited January 2018

    Original poster banned , likely wasn't a serious inquiry . To add my 2 pennies to the topic , I know a woman who does fetish work, not cuddling though, and she actually has several clients who enjoy that but it's usually multi faceted , not just being in a diaper stuff but rather the whole changing , powdering, feeding , etc . So it's very likely that any body asking if they can wear a diaper is not interested in just the platonic cuddling

  • [Deleted User]Greybeard (deleted user)

    @TonyKCMO concur with your thoughts about the more specific request being harder to fulfill. In that regard CC is like a dating site. Some people come in with a specific match in mind, and lay out a laundry list of qualifications like age, race, height and weight, hair and eye color and on and on. If you have to be picky, start with your most important one characteristic, and see how you do. If you get response to that (which you may accept or reject) move on from there, perhaps adding a second of your wants. If you live in Viper’s Rest, Montana, (meaning in the middle of nowhere) your first requirement might, of necessity, be a heartbeat.

  • LoreleiLorelei
    edited January 2018

    @pmvines My response is more... just in case it was serious / just in case someone serious does come along and read this to gauge the climate here, so to speak.

    No, I understand that the ADBL thing can go further than what's acceptable here, it has the potential to be immodest or sexual--(just as cuddling as the potential to go too far, but isn't supposed to)--but that is not the case for everyone and as I've said, I've known people who don't go that far. The OP didn't ask about being changed, which would certainly be an issue because it requires exposure, they only expressed that wearing diapers while cuddling made them feel relaxed and there is nothing inherently wrong with that. After all, if I cuddled an elderly client and they were wearing depends / adult diapers for potential incontinence, that's certainly not an issue.

  • pmvinespmvines
    edited January 2018

    @Lorelei I hear ya. Different strokes and I am def not one to judge what floats the boat of another. I am well aware of the different fetishes out there, and this is a legitimate thing for some people. I just cant see that going very far on this site per se, not with the users on here and the mindset of most of them. Def different I would say than a senior who relies on wearing depends, but I can see why you made the comparison.

  • JazzyPantsJazzyPants

    Haaahaha! I've never in my life heard of someone wanting to cuddle in a dipie but to each their own. I think I'd actually pay to see that. Lol!

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