Why are women so unloving towards men these days?
Thats a very generalized statement lol. I think it could be the crowd you've associated yourself with. Ive met some very incredible and very loving women.
@Love_Architect Is it possible that its not them, its you?
I haven't noticed anything personally.
The more money you give them, the more they will love you.
Truuuu
What Morpheus said. It’s not in a woman’s nature to love a man, but rather to use him for resources. There’s no biological advantage for a woman to love the man himself rather than the resources he can provide. That’s not to say it’s impossible for a woman to love a man, but her inherent nature does not support it. So, yes women are great for cuddling; for long term companionship, not so great. Don’t ever get married to a woman, for she will surely make you her slave. Look up Briffault’s Law.
That......doesn't seem right.
edit--------- Sorry but I've seen so much that just contradicts what you wrote mountain.
edit2------- And before people say this no I am not saying this to get more points from the ladies. I've only sent a message/spoken to five people here. It's also extremely unlikely anyone else from my city is going to read this.
My observation is that there are 2 types of women. One type is only after resources, and will provide sex to get t them. The other type doesn't care so much about the resources and/or sex, but is much more interested in relationships. Of course,there are plenty of variations between these 2 extremes. The ones interested in relationships seem to me to be very loving towards men. Jim
Maybe theyre scared to show love but recieve sexual objectification in return. Life may have taught them its not worth the risk.
I think it is because of the feminist movement. If there is a true friendship, then I think a woman is capable of loving a man and vice versa. Women want men for resources more now because half of marriages end in divorce and the economy is not that great. Because of the national debt, the dollar has less value due to inflation. Men usually don't have the option for a sugar mommy, but there are sugar daddies who will help support women financially. There are also women who are friends with men, but they will use them for their time and money and the men are never able to have an intimate relationship with them. These men are stuck in the friend zone and will continue to be used until the man ends the relationship. Sometimes, the man ends it because of disrespect from the woman which does not cost the woman anything, but some women bite the hand that feeds them.
The op has just shot himself in foot
This appears to be a troll post, which has already begun to sprout misogynistic comments. It is fanning the flames of divisiveness between the men and women of this community that had only recently died down.
@twinkletoes. I can't believe this topic of discussion either. My husband passed away 3 years ago and to see these idiots on here telling me that I couldn't really have loved him because I'm a woman is insane. I realize it's coming from men that don't know women at all but it's still hurtful. We were true partners in every sense of the word. I loved that man more than my own life. So much so that I gave him a kidney. How's that for a "resource"?! I also took care of him for years as well as raised our 4 children. I also am a professional woman who is college educated and owns a successful company. I am completely independent and don't need a man for his resources or because I need a relationship. @pmvines @jasoncuddles @I_am_polylover thank you for always being the sound of reason amongst the ignorant.
Well, OP, I can see why they would be unloving toward you if you're going to lump them all in together like that--most people prefer being treated as an individual instead of having a vague blanket statement tossed in the general direction of the entirety their sex based on a handful of personal experiences.
Still... BlueIris is probably correct, and either way; "Never have an argument with a negative person, they only hear what suits them and listen only to respond."
@Scarlette - My condolences for your loss, it is pretty horribly insensitive toward... every woman to say something like that, but yes, especially toward people like you who have deeply loved and lost. I was also married once and would've done anything for my partner, including the couple of years of work when I was the sole provider for us. No relationship I've had has ever been about money, but funnily enough... taking the time to actually think about it, all the people I've dated either made less than me or were unemployed. xD
Don't feed the trolls!
@Lorelei. Thank you for your kind words. If we weren't so loving toward men we could start our own forum post! Thankful that in that my real life I am surrounded by loving, kind men.
@scarlette did we just time warp ahead several months ?
Thanks everyone who spoke out against the hateful comments. You are the good energy and vibe of this place and are what make this community good
I'm confused and some what disturbed by this thread. Sure there will always those of both genders who only seek relationships for 'resource' gain but they are NOT the majority of people.
I'm sorry that you've ran into the wrong people in the past, hopefully you'll meet better people in future.
Brandi please!!!! ( rolls eyes at her)
The op old enough to know better by his age to not make such a comment based on his Limited / experience with women .
Women alot time are naturally nuriting and caring , its part of their nature and design and that alongnwith other physical attributes which attracts men to them.
I not trolling. I just stating facts , the age old chase of man and woman not just for ' boom boom '
@Scarlette I understand your point of view. My wife and I were married for 30 years and if she didn’t truly love me she would have never stayed with me for so long. True love takes a lot of work by both parties to remain strong.
It is very typical for people with large egos to assume that when somebody does not admire them, care for them, attracted to them, etc, to blame it on the other person rather than looking inward. The bigger the ego, the bigger the bruise. To the OP, whatever bitterness you may possess over a particular situation or experience,, please do not generalize that toward women in general, we don't want that kind of drama.
Hello. i'm an ice queen now, had to be to protect myself (got sick of people taking the piss). Not sure what kind of love you're expecting of women as there are many types of love and ways of expressing them also.
Loving people leaves you vulnerable, which is fine in itself i guess, until people decide to exploit that vulnerability. [](https://i.imgur.com/o5eKVun.jpg
I can say in my own experience I do feel like I've been nothing more than a credit score and a man servant but it would be very wrong of me to lump all woman into "unloving of men" category. I've seen women love the men they are with and I am encouraged by the women who have replied on here saying how much they loved the man they were with. @scarlette, my deepest condolences to you on losing your husband, you definitely show that you loved him. Thank you for sharing.
I used to have a female friend who would ask me to do things for her or take her to restaurants. After I ended this "friendship", she said that she never asked me for anything. She loves her dog more than any man. She just uses men. I'm not misogynistic. I'm just stating my experiences. I agree with titanic1517 and not all women are like that.
Don’t get married if you’re a man. Don’t listen to the women commenting here! Never let a woman pressure you into marriage.
You have enough stress already at work. If you are not self-employed, you already have a boss at work; do you want to have a second boss at home? Isn’t it bad enough slaving away at work; do you really need a slavemaster at home too? If you are self-employed, and you are your own boss at work, do you really want your home life to be a second job? Because that’s precisely what living with a woman is: a second job.
Women are by and large BPD. The AVERAGE woman is BPD; at the very least, she may as well be. Not so of the average man.
Don’t sign your life away to a woman.
Go #MGTOW!
MGTOW is growing in popularity, but it is a lonely life. Men are reluctant to get married because the court system is biased against men.
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I understand where the OP is coming from.
It's like racism. Some think it's dead but there are others who see it or live it every day. It's not just perspective, it's reality.
While I've experienced some of what the OP said in my own life I've also experienced the exact opposite. It's human-based not gender-based.
On CC alone I usually have six positive encounters to every negative one.