🤮 ~ To the bulk of the comments on this thread.
Fun fact ~ Men have to go through the same rigorous training and vetting processes as everyone else to become a pro cuddler here.
Another fun fact ~ A guy I met through here literally assaulted me the day before being granted his pretty pink 'P'.
And yet another ~ Everyone has the capacity to be a decent human, but not everyone cares nor wants to be.
To answer the OP ~ The second after you thought "Wtf?! Should I ask him to go?" would have been a great time to tell him to kick rocks, followed by writing him his deserved (just the facts) karma. And you may as well just consider any funds not returned as a gamble that didn't go in your favor. Such is the risk anytime we hire anyone to do anything.
Hopefully your next time round is a far better experience though. 💓
If I had the money for it, I would totally pay for cuddles with men!! I only have one male friend that is actually cuddling with me in a platonic way, without expecting anything else. some others well...
@quixotic_life actually the training and vetting process for men is even less than women, as they literally only have to enter their credit card info and thats it. I think the women are at least required to submit a paragraph or two about why they want to become a pro. It's not like there is some magical dust that gets sprinkled, making the men less likely to be completely inappropriate just because they want to charge. Some are great and completely trustworthy. Several come to mind on here who I know personally and would recommend to anybody who asks. However quite a few I would not trust around my family or friends in the least .
Pros are supposed to be paid at the beginning of the session.
I would end it the moment they start doing anything that is not focused on cuddling with me. That is what they are being paid for. If they are not going to do that, give me a refund and you better believe they are going to get one star karma and a report to the site.
As for why a woman would pay to cuddle - which is completely off topic but I’ll address it anyway: unlike an enthusiast, a pro is supposed to be focused on the client’s needs, not their own, and one would hope perhaps they would be more professional and not pushing boundaries the way too many male enthusiasts are.
I don't think it matters the gender. It is like any service, if you are paying you are expecting the best service/result. You wouldn't be ok going to a massage therapist who is just resting an elbow on your back while on the phone, or a server that's texting the whole time you order. If the story really did happen to someone you know I feel so sorry for them and I really hope they were able to end the session and ask for their money back.