Hey, guys. I was wondering something and was wanting to ask what y'all thought of this.
FIRST OF ALL - I am NOT trying to knock this community. You guys are AWESOME. But I have a worry that has come up about it.
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Basically, I am a person who VERY STRONGLY values monogamy. I have used this service 3 times to fill the intimacy gap in my life while I am at school studying, as I have never been in a relationship before.
However, I am wondering, based on some other people's (outside of here) opinions that I heard, that there might be concerns about cuddling with people whom I do not share an emotional connection with. I know that there is the stereotype of the man or woman who has sex with so many people that they lose their ability to form an emotional bond with others.
I know that the first professional that I hired, I developed a connection to for a while and I really missed her. The subsequent two, not so much. I'm wondering if that might be the result of what I am talking about.
NOTE: I understand that this service is undoubtedly helpful for people who experience trauma, hardships, or extreme factors (like disabilities) that prevent them from getting intimacy. I also understand that different people might have different susceptibility to the emotional issues that I have described. But I am concerned about the effects that this might have had/have on someone like me who uses it as a substitute for intimacy.
Is this a legitimate concern or am I just being paranoid? I understand that I could be dead wrong about this, so please enlighten me if I am.