Im sure some of you will love this... This ones for you @pmvines Ill provoke
Ummmm.... perhaps Murray isn't the troll???
So much BS in one post
He who demands unconditional affection and acceptance though attempting to bully and criticize women who are repulsed by his behavior
There's been a few reports about this thread but I don't wish to take punitive action. I'm concerned it would discourage other people who might want to reach out to the community about something potentially controversial.
I would strongly recommend @murray keep his language strictly platonic going forward to avoid any issues. Referring to someone as a "sex kitten" on this website of all places is not appropriate. Then suggesting the recipient is at fault for not taking it well could have easily inflamed the situation. Having looked at his account I don't see any red flags and so I'm hopeful his appreciation for the feedback here is sincere and this thread will be of value to some others too.
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Totally agree!
Thank you @Mark for all you do to keep this place safe
No one especially I can speak for myself is saying he's a troll or it's a 'definite' bait. All I and some others are saying is that the probability is high of this being a bait. High probability doesn't equal one way or the other.
As for apology, personally, all I spotted here and there are a "sorry not sorry" mentality. When someone is truly sorry for something they don't try to defend it or excuse their behavior.
If he did give a sound apology, well we also gave plenty of help, advice and all, so try not to dismiss all we actually put into to 'educate' him that this is not acceptable and you might be trying to focus more on the "scoldings" (can't find a more suitable word right now) here and there.
That's all I have to say.
@murray Check out this video - You might find it helpful as it corresponds with the thread. ... name calling, pet names, not willing to respect our boundaries
@Lovelight I'm sorry I just wanted to make sure that you saw the post in this thread when he read everyone's reactions and apologized. Not in the original posting.
"I am deeply chastened-- I had no idea the general opinion wd be so unanimously critical of my remarks. I have been educated about what is appropriate in our society, and will be a lot more careful about what I say. (I thought I was being harmless and good-natured). I appreciate love_arcitect's remarks in my favor. @Scarlette; I am here for healing, that is precisely what I got from my first two cuddlers, and it improved me to the extent that I was successful in getting a more rewarding girlfriend than I'd previously ever had. I suffer from depression, which is pretty much incompatible with success in human relationships. What better testimony to the value of cuddling can there be? I need a lot more of it, and am horrified that anyone wd think I shd be banned from having access to it. Be well and thanks." - Murray
This guy absolutely needed to be corrected and he definately has been. So could we please get back to positive energy and the healing power of touch and move away from this extremely toxic discussion?
***drops in puppies, kittens, smiles, rainbows and hugs all over the forums
I second that! @o0ashley I love and appreciate your warm humble energy. You totally get it!
@o0ashely You had me at puppies. ;-)
@o0ashley As requested ...
Hahaha oh my goodness how cute are those pictures!!! Awe!! Ok guys thank you so much I totally have big smiles now
Thank you @o0ashley for recognizing someone’s sincere apology and and pointing it out for others to see in case they missed it. I’ve seen it time and time again on this forum where members will gang up on someone and best the crap out of them and forgiveness seems to be the last thing on everyone’s mind. People are allowed to make mistakes, it’s called being human. This is a community of cuddlers and for the most part, we should be about warm fuzzies. Ashley thank you so so much for turning this thread around.
I respect your words & insight on this thread! I see you get it also. @Morpheus - I have taken the red pill! lol
I've said my if.
"If he did give a sound apology, well we also gave plenty of help, advice and all, ..."
Thanks for pointing out my missed point too.
I think I shd point out that all my cuddlers have thought my behavior with them has been exemplary. You can see an approving comment in my karma. If this seems strange to some of you, I can only say that you can't judge or understand a person you've never met, from just one conversation.
Lol
@Murray... Have you hired cuddlers from other sites?
Ok I donot understand why cuddling is presumed to be sexual! In our society why simple hug or a cuddle can not be simple. Cuddling is a therapeutic way to heal some one internally please respect it.Hugs to all
I've had 6 cuddlers from theSnugglebuddies, all of whom I saw at least twice. None ever called me out on anything. I've seen two on this site who both liked me very much (see the karma from one of them).
I get the feeling very few of you have taken the trouble to look at my profile:
I have Asperger's Syndrome, but cuddling has been therapeutic for me and helped me to find the nicest girlfriend I have ever had (we cuddle a lot). Like to learn about each other by chatting during cuddle, though like some silence too to concentrate on the cuddle. I hope to find my first free cuddlers. I am polite, respectful and eager to please.
I am an older man (but young in spirit). I am 5'6", slender, short grey hair with mustache and goatee. I can talk about anything, including feelings, and like all aspects of a woman. I am a science and language enthusiast who has published two of my translations of Herman Hesse's poetry from German. I have written several 1-act plays and the book and lyrics of a musical about mental illness: RELAX! YOU'RE NOT PARANOID-- THE WORLD REALLY IS OUT TO GET YOU!!
Looking for a long term connection that might bloom into friendship.
--Murray (Somerville)
I...can't...even
emails from my most recent cuddler will show you a different picture of me:
Tiffaknee89 28 - Cambridge Professional Delete Conversation
Hi Murray! Phoebe tells me many great things about you. Also I heard we may be doing a double cuddle!? Very excited if so -Tiffany 12/01/2018 04:08 pm
Tue 3 to 5 is good. If 5 is too late to finish, then Wed 2 to 4. I look fdd 2 mtg U, Tiff.. --Murray 12/01/2018 05:25 pm
Hello! Just talked with Phoebe and 2-4 on Wednesday it is 13/01/2018 01:08 pm
okey-doke. 13/01/2018 06:31 pm
Great cuddling and meeting you!! Good luck and have fun on your date! Also great profile picture 17/01/2018 08:43 pm
murray denofsky denofs8@gmail.com
8:59 PM (11 hours ago)
to CuddleComfort Thx so much, Tiff! Why don't you and Cheryl please use my email or phones for future communication?
(my email and phone numbers follow) 11 am to 1 am) murray denofsky denofs8@gmail.com
10:40 PM (10 hours ago)
to CuddleComfort Is this useful, Tiff?
ROMANTIC FACILITATION FOR COUPLES
will provide sexual or relationship advice to couples for any kind of romantic problem you have.
will do a 3-way non-sexual cuddle if that will help resolve the problem. 18/01/2018 09:05 am
Sounds good! Also my email (her email and cell number follow)
I'm sorry. I don't see it .
Enjoy.
@murray I’m sure you’re a great guy although I did say you shouldn’t have referred to the girl as a sex kitten. I can move on and get over it. Sadly though there are a whole lot of high and mighty people in here who are going to judge you and crucify you. If the pros you see are reacting well to you, great, you’re probably just fine. Don’t let the overly judgmental people on the forum get to you.
PS Cut your losses now and move on to the next thread. Take my word for it.