This can apply to enthusiasts x enthusiasts as well!
Taste in music Their touch Boldness Tenderness Attentiveness Conversation/Communication (in or out of session) Frequency
I have not had a Lotta cuddles lately, but the last one was excellent. The way they connect. The way they listen. The way they are attentive. Connection especially energetically is important to me. I love a intimate, platonic connection.
Smell Gentleness Communication Presentness
There are qualities that feel ineffable. I have a couple of cuddle clients who were SO amazing at cuddling, I probably think about them once a month out of the blue. And we haven’t cuddled in over a year.
@Jkay WHOLESOME
As a pro, some qualities that make some of my cuddlers stand out as better cuddlers would be :
Respect of boundaries Informative Gentle Has at least a bit of skill in communication: it’s hard to carry a convo when you’re the only one speaking
Being me.
And please do not attempt to take this as seriousness, just is clearly a joke. I'm confident, but not egomaniacal
Consistency and Communication are huge for me as an individual, as they play into the bigger roles of being respectful as I try with those I meet. And when you're meeting strangers, it's the least we can do. ☺️
Sense of humor and good hygiene - (both themselves and in their homes) especially if they're hosting.
Wrote this before reading the question properly (not a pro) but here goes:
@dave31415 they said non pros can answer too! 😄
My favorite Pros have had the following qualities that really set them apart: An eagerness and enthusiasm for cuddling A kind disposition
That's really all I can ask for. I'm sure my interactions with them and my own vibe helped foster a good cuddling environment, but I really have to give them all of the credit because they are in many ways opening themselves up to me far more than I am to them. And since I've had not-as-stellar cuddles while still being me, it's probably somewhat safe to conclude that those awesome cuddlers are indeed purely awesome.
Really nice thread 🌌 hopefully lots of pros respond and everyone in the forum community is here to read them.
Speaking from a male enthusiast point of view, what keeps me going back to a pro are the ones that communicate with me and make me feel wanted it’s just that simple for me.
It's all about connection to me, soul connecting. I enjoy great conversations, making me feel safe, respected and wanted.
When you sink into their chest and just feel safe. Sometimes this happens with my cuddle friends, and sometimes it's happened with perfect strangers. It's a beautiful feeling and I'm not sure why some people cause it and others don't.
~ Sunset Snuggles