Wtf!!?? I'm sorry man but you are better off without that trash woman! Made you pay for sex???? Jesus.. I'm not even gonna read the other responses and just say what I think. This sounds like an incredibly toxic relationship that you should be glad ended. I'm sure it hurt and still does but you deserve better. But at the same time why did you want your wife to go and cuddle with other men?? I have so many questions. This sounds incredibly emotionally abusive as far as relationships go.
Loving is about mutual caring and giving. I feel for your pain but you need to understand that you can only go in a healthier direction after that.
Whew..am I reading this right? @Tigerlilly32
You read it wrong … he said
you also don’t have the right to deny a sex life to your partner. That is, if you won’t have sex then you should permit them to have sex elsewhere.
To that I say, if you guys aren’t compatible, move on from each other.
Alright, you guys are killing me here.
I was the one to introduce her to the site I saw all her messeges since we was a team used to deny me sex make me pay for sex used the money to get her mails done and hair done i soent so much on paying fkr sex i became blind to bills sns priorities and our car got repossessed st one point
I was the one to introduce her to the site
I saw all her messeges since we was a team
used to deny me sex
make me pay for sex
used the money to get her mails done and hair done
i soent so much on paying fkr sex i became blind to bills sns priorities and our car got repossessed st one point
OP may true and well be devastated, but I read all this and these are my takeaways
introduced his wife to a site where other men, perverts in his words, would be with his wife, working together to make it happen specifically highlights the sex denial and financial domination like activities in this story
And if we add the fact this was posted very publicly as another point, I cant help but see a list of fetish like behavior. Seriously? Im the only one whos going to point that out?
EDIT
This whole thread is unhealthy in the extreme.
@tacpmurg
Couldn't have said it better. Some dirty laundry is best left unaired.
I hope both parties are on their way to happier relationships even if that means being alone for now.
Honestly, I removed emotions from this , and deduced that there was a lot of manipulation involved on both sides before the marriage ended.
@tacpmurg you hit the nail on the head. I didn’t want to be the one who said it. I’m glad others can read logically through this.
The opening post had many red flags and not just from the wife, a lot did not make sense.
But I refuse to go on a blind witch 🧙🏽♀️ hunt.
And I won’t divulge into further discussing “rights of denying sex or denying a sex life” it really gives me the creeps. No one is owed nothing period- so there’s nothing to deny. 🫥🫥🫥
I’d rather not interact with someone who shares that line of thinking.
Childish. Can this thread be closed? This man poured out his soul and somehow people made it a soapbox. Open another thread and argue. PTSD is real. Comments are not helping.
Wrapping this up with a pretty little bow. There have been more than enough flags on this thread to warrant a lockdown.
Good luck on your respective journeys.