Blocked

terpjay1terpjay1
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So, I inquired with a local cuddler about availability tomorrow. She gave me a time and asked for a pic. I sent her a pic. Next thing i know…she blocked me. The entire conversation was about availability only. I did not engage with her in any other way. The only explanation is that she did not like the way I looked. Has this happened to anyone? I will admit I’m hurt at her reaction, but I’ll get over it.

Comments

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    People are going to tell you that users block for any number of reasons and it doesn't mean anything, but regardless of the reason, I know this hurts and I'm sorry this happened. hugs

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • Mike403Mike403

    If I took a sip of beer everytime I was blocked, I'd be drunker than a dog.

  • ShaneSchruteShaneSchrute

    @Mike403 unfortunately I DID have a beer after each time I got blocked. Then I died of alcohol poisoning. I’m a ghost now.

  • SRobbSRobb

    @terpjay1 her loss , move on sir. It happens to everyone.

  • CuddleWhoCuddleWho

    It happens.

    Not that this is your responsibility, but fwiw this is one reason I think it’s wise to send a picture with your first message. So neither of you have to deal with the possibility of her rejecting you for your appearance (not that I’m sure that’s what happened here). She still may not respond to that first message, but tons of cuddlers don’t respond anyway, who knows why?

  • Connecticut1977Connecticut1977

    Things happen!!!! I have been there. I personally don't block anyone because I want them to eventually see the progress I have made since that particular time. Don't hang your head on that.

  • LilBirbLilBirb

    I’m so sorry :( Personally I’d never block without an explanation and never a shitty one like I don’t like your looks, like wtf. I’m sorry you were hurt. I would be too

  • CuddleDuncanCuddleDuncan Mod

    People block for all kinds of reasons, including many you couldn't possibly imagine. It's pretty common.

    It could indeed be because of the way you look, that is possible. But there are still a million possible explanations. Perhaps you're wearing the same shirt her ex was wearing when he dumped her.

    Feel the pain .... then let it go.

  • terpjay1terpjay1

    Thanks, everyone! Some group therapy is exactly what I needed. Just going to find someone else. You all have a nice weekend!

  • xeldaxelda

    If this was a professional, I would consider that very unprofessional and upsetting. I'm sorry that was your experience.

    If this was an enthusiast, she may have blocked you because your only conversation was about availability. Consider engaging in connecting conversation before moving to arranging meeting or planning any kind of cuddling.

  • TheDave90TheDave90

    I've had a few block me for no apparent reason, very frustrating. I took some time off the site after the last one but I'm over all that now heh.

  • MelancholyMelancholy

    Yes definitely. I've had someone block me after I sent them my picture.

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc

    Your post was unclear on if it was a professional or not, but I would just follow Xelda’s (above) comments. Regardless of whether it’s a professional or an enthusiast it definitely is not a good idea to go straight for the close, so to speak.

    I mean, how do you even know if your energy even aligns with that person. I certain chemistry has to be established at minimum, professional, or not. So yes, I would go with that advice.

    (For whatever it’s worth, I personally do not use professionals it’s not my thing, just enthusiasts, but when it comes to blocking, I am usually the one that does that once I get tired of the 119 messages going back-and-forth with no substance whatsoever. I can’t stand the hellos, how are yous and endless one sentence displays of vapidity that last for days. But I will usually make a closing message to that person indicating my reasons after a number of reasonable attempts to engage and then block them. But that’s me.)

  • Mike403Mike403

    I had some woman randomly message me accusing me of being racist in the forum then blocked me. When was I racist?

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel

    When was I racist?

    When you said Formula One and NASCAR were stupid

  • Mike403Mike403

    @FunCartel - I flushed a pack of skittles down the toilet and watched a NASCAR race in 7 seconds flat.

  • terpjay1terpjay1

    Thanks again, everyone. I found someone else and had a fantastic session. What block? 😁

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