I think its easy to misjudge me based solely on my interwebs posting that I'm actually pretty sensitive. I get misty eyed at life sometimes . I am truly grateful for my connections and people in my life and honestly dont feel that I deserve their kindness at times. I love being alone more than I love being with people, but I still feel lonely and people starved , even though I just cant tolerate it for extended periods. Kinda like craving sweets even though all it does is make you gassy
@JohnR1972 ๐
Someone was admiring the sphere, the other day. They were able to tell me what it was made of - Selenite. ๐ค
~ Sunset Snuggles
Takes me a while to warm up to people/people start understanding my dry ass sarcastic humor. Most think I'm an asshole or absolutely bat shit insane. Give me a couple hours and it usually changes, but, well, what can you do.
@ohnonotagain I like most of your dry *ss sarcastic humor, Lol.
All of my life people have assumed I am Suzy homemaker. Until I insist that I live like the stereotypical bachelor or they see my house for the first time. ha ha. I kind of wish I could live up to this better impression people have of me.
That Iโm an emoji ๐๐๐
That I pronounce gif as โjifโ and I will die on that hill.
People tend to think Iโm more popular than I actually am ๐ฉ #SetUp
People tend to assume that I am easy to take advantage of and that I am desperate for a date or relationship.. People assume I am a pushover... because I am kind.
That I am a easy target.
@achetocuddle haha thank you, sometimes what I say can seem mean, but it is said with good intentions. We've been chatting on this forum for quite some time eh?
@AlexciaRose they used to think the same of me, now I have a rugged exterior. The worst is the ones you let the rough exterior down for and then start trying to take advantage of you. For years, no movie really truly represented my thought process until I saw everything, everywhere, all at once. Now I feel better/like I'm not so alone in the world.
@ohnonotagain that was a really good movie.
Yeah those ones hurt the most. I decided to stop dating completely for awhile and work on myself. Try to build healthier relationships with people. It's not going very good so far. My kindness is misunderstood and even here they are people trying to push boundaries still.
@AlexciaRose understandable, I think I've taken myself completely out of the dating pool on my end. It just really isn't worth all the headache, manipulation, and weaponization of my vulnerabilities when she's in a sour mood about something not really pertaining to the situation at hand. I remain optimistic, but I'm too old for that shit.
@ohnonotagain I get you. I was going to delete my account here too.. like maybe I shouldn't even try doing this until I have healed.
@LVLY Is coming across as more popular than you really are helpful or more of a curse? I also wonder if you are more popular than you realize. I've learned a few popular people seem to be a little unaware of their true popularity.
@ohnonotagain Yes, we have chatted on the forum a while. Occasionally your forum remarks are pretty pointed, Lol, but I totally believe you have good intentions. Sometimes good things to say cannot be wrapped in pretty paper and bows and sprinkled with glitter that has to be swept up later, Lol.
@AlexciaRose I hope you don't leave, but you are smart to consider you might need to heal more before you cuddle again.
@Charlie_Bear Thanks for telling me how to pronounce "gif", Lol.
@achetocuddle I think I might pause for a bit.. that's what a friend suggested..