What Choices Do You Offer for A First Meeting?

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  • Floor, couch or bed?

  • @GreatHornedOwl that is the most excellent idea, acts of service is my other love language if someone offered to do that for me and then take up my groceries upstairs I would probably cook them dinner. It would just be so nice to have someone come grocery shopping with me. Especially if I was an enthusiast. That would mean a lot to me.

  • I’ll simply agree to disagree.

    @CuddlelessinLB Good choice. Sometimes it is best to let someone’s misguided words and determination to be right at any cost just hang there for others to see.

  • @GreatHornedOwl ,The ups driver and mail carrier aren’t representing themselves as someone who wants to come in your house to cuddle, plus their employers do background checks before they are hired. This website is open to EVERYONE without a background check! Safety is an important factor, especially for women!!!

  • @GreatHornedOwl - your comments have been flagged multiple times in threads where women have clearly stated their comfort levels and boundaries, but you insist that women are "absurd" or you're somehow incredulous that they have a different world-view and EXPERIENCE other than your own. Their life experience is vastly different than yours, which you fail to recognize or even TRY to understand. It's not up to you to decide what women's boundaries are or what makes them feel safe - that is uniquely theirs and theirs alone. In the words of those who have reported your comments, your "mansplaining" is not welcome, and comes across as incredibly tone-deaf and dismissive.

    I'll remind you that I said "do not ever message me again" or tag me.

    As you are the OP of this thread, I'm closing this up.

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