Pressure

[Deleted User]Pressman (deleted user)
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Hi, all.

New to site.

I know it’s strange, but an ideal session for me is having a woman simply sit on my back. I know it’s odd, but it does give me a sense of well- being, a kind of safe and secured feeling.

It’s not sexual in any way but just puts me in a happy place just as cuddling does for others.

An example of a nice session for me would be for a woman to sit on my back on the couch, kick up her feet and watch her favorite show for an hour.

Comments

  • TxTomTxTom

    Yes, some cuddlers will do the "pancake" or "weighted blanket" cuddle position. It's not unusual. You just need to ask your potential cuddler if she is okay trying that position. Some are comfortable with it, some are not.

  • [Deleted User]Pressman (deleted user)

    Thx, Tom!

  • [Deleted User]addicted2touch (deleted user)

    I'm the same way....always loved heavy weight and pressure on me. So comforting. 💕

  • BearBear

    Weighted blankets may help with sleep.

  • Rachel_PRachel_P

    This actually sounds awesome…as the squasher or the squashee…or is it squisher or squishee? I would happily do either one.

    I was told by one client that he had a woman he cuddled with ask him to lay completely flat on top of her and use her like a pillow. He said that the size differential made him nervous, as she was easily as small as I am and that he was afraid of literally squashing her…but she persisted with the request. I thought the prospect of being laid upon sounded incredibly comforting and safe. Reminds me of childhood when kids would do this to one another. The pressure actually feels amazing, and the human body can take quite a bit of it.

  • TxTomTxTom

    @Rachel_P I enjoy both positions, but I like being the Squisher a teensy-weensy bit more. However, yes, I'm cognizant of the fact that my weight isn't very comfortable for her, so I don't mind being the Squishee at all. I can sleep very comfortably either way.

  • Sheena123Sheena123

    I don’t see anything wrong with that! If I have a cuddler ask that, I’d say no problem! 👍🏻👍🏻

    When I was growing up, my mom liked me doing that. I think the pressure felt great and made her feel more aligned possibly? I’m not a chiropractor but that’s a guess 🤷🏻‍♀️ feels safe too I would think?

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  • [Deleted User]Pressman (deleted user)

    Yes, I’ll have to find someone in my area. It’s best on a couch or the side of the bed and being sat on park bench style.

    If on the floor, full weight with their feet up by my head.

    • This particular move is better suited for me if the woman/women are on the lighter side. Otherwise a heavier framed woman would not bother me at all. I have a good tolerance
  • PrettyLuvPrettyLuv

    My friend once wanted me to stand on the lower part of his back. He was of a very thin frame and I looked at him like he was crazy for even thinking of having me do that especially considering my frame in comparison to his but he insisted so I obliged. We both laughed when he found he had a hard time getting a breath in.

    I’ve had friends lie across my back before and it felt good. I’ve also arched my back for a stretch across the torso of someone as they laid on their side. It almost feels like you’re doing yoga and stretching in some really intricately weird positions.

    Stretch/pressure cuddles…hmm

  • CuddleHugs01234CuddleHugs01234

    If hugging standing up, the female can stand on the males feet. Or any gender, for that matter.

  • [Deleted User]HumbleBaron (deleted user)

    Pressure makes diamonds

  • Matt462Matt462

    Reading this thread has this in my by head now…

  • w8ed_blanketw8ed_blanket
    edited May 2023

    I don't think that's strange, @Pressman. One of the sensations we feel on our skin is pressure. It's a comfortable and relaxing sensation (e.g., a massage at a spa).

    One of my favorite cuddling positions I love to give is just lying on top of a person's body and relaxing my limbs around the body like --- here it comes -- a weighted blanket. (see username lol)

  • AmortentiaAmortentia

    This makes me think of when I had family members and friends (so not cuddlers) ask me to stand or walk on their backs. And I was always like whaaaaat? It is weird to me but they enjoy the pressure I guess but I avoid it personally on myself even a lot of massages because I feel crippled at the end and if anyone stood or walked on my back my little self would probably scream and hope no bones break lol. Yes, I was traumatized by massages for the most part specifically with those who do it as a living and I just dislike them with a passion lol. Anyway, point is you do you. If applying pressure works for you then go for it if the other person is ok with it.

  • StructuredQueryLanguageStructuredQueryLanguage
    edited May 2023

    So, if someone sat on my back outright, I'd probably start gasping or be worried my bones would break lol. I've had people lie on me, however, with more evenly distributed weight, and that is nice. I totally see how the position you described would be lovely, though, for one able to handle it lol.

    In general, for me, there's the cuddle positions I find most awesome in my head versus the cuddle positions my body can actually achieve without getting sore. They often don't match, but on that rare occasion when they do, it's sublime!

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