I am sensing missunderstanding and then frustration in this thread.
On the site we just click the report button and write what needs to be reported and it goes directly to those who need to see it only. That is all. I've done so several times. One thing that is looked down upon is trying to blast someone on the forum whether or not they did anything wrong.
You seem like you're in a hurry to get a timeout or banned. Why? If you don't want to be here, you can always go on your own.
The reason they don't allow the whole naming of someone who wronged you is a) they have to investigate before they take action and b) this site isn't really about pitchforks and torches. As you've seen, if someone is violating TOS, they get banned. And now other enthusiasts and pros are seeing this and thinking you will publicly name them if you're unhappy, which won't help you find a cuddle partner.
@Allen1974 The disrespectful way you're behaving now is a huge red flag for anyone who might have given you a chance. Actions, and reactions, have consequences.
well looks like OP is currently deactivated....
@Allen1974 don't you realize that the way you behave and the way you present yourself has a rather decent sized influence on whether or not somebody is going to want to spend time with you? You may want to listen to @AllAboutSoul comment above. You make things bad for yourself when you come across like you can't manage your emotions like this .
OP has indeed deactivated and this thread has run its course. To reiterate what's already been explained better, the forums aren't TMZ. We aren't here to place people on blast. If you come across issues, report them & the mods will look into it when we have time. Personal attacks against volunteer admin just doing their jobs is only going to say more about you as a person then the site itself. Have a good night!