Always amazes me.

MegaSnugglezMegaSnugglez
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I am on the forums every now and then and I am always amazed at the “clients” that post about pros and what they should or should not look like or wear or not wear and all this lovely stuff.

I always appreciate all the pros on this site. The warmth and great conversations and cuddles and friendship is amazing. I am not perfect for sure sometimes but,

-respect
-communication
-boundaries

Have these 3 when interacting with a pro or any person really and you will have a great interaction because you both are safe and comfortable and heard.

Thanks.

Happy cuddling
🙂

Comments

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    Yep, yep, yep and yeps some more!!

  • CharlieBearCharlieBear Mod

    Some guys have very fragile egos and feel like they have to come to the forums to complain while leaving out pertinent info as to why they really had the experience that they did. Any time I see these posts I always think, “ok what are they not telling us?”

  • [Deleted User]Kuddle6 (deleted user)

    @quixotic_life Was that in the voice of Ducky? Lol

  • TxTomTxTom

    Perhaps the forums should only be readable to new users for an initial period of time. It would give them time to familiarize themselves with the rules, etiquette, expectations, et al, without posting new threads about old topics.

  • Mike403Mike403

    @Charlie_Bear - Some people should be calling a psychologist instead of looking for a cuddle partner.

  • pmvinespmvines

    A lack of creativity

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    @Kuddle6 ~ Always!!

  • [Deleted User]delicatesoul (deleted user)

    @MegaSnugglez Very well said!!!

    I show respect and kindness to all. I sincerely believe in treating others how you'd like to be treated and that being negative and mean takes unnecessary energy. It's easier to be nice, like swimming with the current instead of against it

  • BearBear

    One the biggest issues I see is that people talk from their perspective. I try to look at multiple points of view . Just because something doesn’t go the way a person wants it to or as expected, doesn’t mean that it’s wrong.

    This gets even more infuriating when something is stated in the profile and people still get aggravated that they can’t have their way.

  • MotorbabyMotorbaby

    @Kuddle6 & @quixotic_life - I KNEW IT!!!! Thanks for confirming it quixotic _life!!!!

  • MorpheusMorpheus

    I’ve always said that I think clients sometimes underestimate their ability to affect the quality of their cuddle session with a pro. I think some clients feel that they are paying so the quality of the session is strictly the responsibility of the pro. You’re likely to have a better session with a happy pro who you help feel safe and comfortable.

  • quixotic_lifequixotic_life

    That's actually pretty interesting. The idea that one might not go into a session with a mindset of "How might I make this nice for the both of us?"

    I mean, I don't go to the store and treat the people who work there as less than, or expect them to make my entire shopping trip worthwhile. Most of the time I'm polite, I engage in silly banter, I help bag my groceries, etc. And you know what? It doesn't quite suck so much as those times when I've been up my own butt only thinking of myself/oblivious to the goings-on around me.

    I know it's not quite the same but, honestly, I find it kind of odd that there could be so many adults who apparently don't understand the basics of peopling and how the energy they bring directly impacts their experience ~ Especially in an intimate setting.

    As a wise ol' bear has posed, "What are they not telling us?"

  • CuddleWhoCuddleWho

    Have these 3 when interacting with a pro or any person really and you will have a great interaction because you both are safe and comfortable and heard.

    Honestly I find this kind of a weird statement. Both people need to bring these things to the table, don’t they? We are not guaranteed to both be safe and comfortable and heard if I’m acting like a decent person; we can only be assured of that if both of us are acting like decent people.

  • w8ed_blanketw8ed_blanket

    -respect
    -communication
    -boundaries

    Man, OP, that's a high bar to ask for. How dare people have standards, and how dare men view women as people. :P

  • TheFunCartelTheFunCartel
    edited June 2023

    IOUs are my preferred method of payment. Just not others’ preference. I accept the preferences of others. That’s about as Sesame Street of an explanation I can muster on this topic.

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