Talk about something you need to talk about

[Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)
edited July 2023 in General

If you're struggling with anything that's weighing you down and need to talk about it, this Forum is for you to let it all out. To anyone reading, please keep discretion and respect others. It doesn't have to be something most people consider big, if it makes you feel a certain way is for a reason and talking about it can sometimes help you realize why...

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  • I suffer from the burden of success and entitlement. Commonly referred to as hyperassholism.

    Not that I want to be cured. But sympathy and gratuities are welcome.

  • edited July 2023

    All this heat feels like Satan farted in my face

  • @pmvines - Hail Satan

  • I have a sinus infection, my Face is killing me.

  • I did recently discover that my left leg is now 1/4” shorter after knee surgery. No joke and it’s a problem.

  • @carrieanne , that's going to hurt your neck, hips and spine. Are you talking to your doctor about a prescription shoe lift?

  • @carrieanne Home Depot has shims.

  • @carrieanne at least you know why, I have no clue why mine left leg is shorter. I used to wear a thin insole in just the left shoe and it helped.

  • @pmvines well said 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • Finding a good cuddle partner can be super frustrating. Having people look at your profile after you send them a message, but they never actually respond to your message, can also be frustrating.

  • [Deleted User]SeraphineSnuggs (deleted user)

    Life has me down. But, nothing goes as planned so...

  • edited July 2023

    People assume I'm just quiet...but I've had anxiety since forever and so find it hard to start conversations. Naturally I'm OK if other people talk to me first. It's probably why I'm not getting very far socially here or in the dating world though 😅

  • I've been a mess for a couple days and today went through with signing paperwork to surrender my dog.
    For the first time ever she licked my tears while letting me hug hold her like a person. I've been crying off and on all night and, even though it's 2:15 am, I can't sleep. I know it's the right thing to do for her, but it's been an emotional struggle to actually do it. 💔

  • Oh, @quixotic_life , I'm sorry, that's so hard to do. ((Hugs))

  • @quixotic_life I'm sending you a ton of hugs!

  • edited July 2023

    @quixotic_life
    This truly breaks my heart and i can almost feel your pain, I’m just so sorry. When my little dog Sam died, I slept with his favorite toy for a long time. I also bought a stuffed plush dog that looked so much like him on Etsy and he still sits on my bed. I searched his breed on Amazon also.
    It takes a while,

  • @quixotic_life sorry to hear about your having to sign over your pup. I hope you can visit her at least.

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @BoomerSpooner 😂🤣🤣

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @Bear have you tried cleaning your air ways? There's products that simplify it... I've heard it can be a pain, best of wishes on your recovery <3

  • @persyprado I have Neilmed to irrigate them. It’s helped. Thank you.

  • @carrieanne I have the same issue. You can get a lift for one side or try prescription inserts.

    @quixotic_life my heart goes out to you. I had to due the same just before Christmas in 2021. I still miss him.

  • @Bear @Motorbaby @AllAboutSoul
    I recently took a week vacation from life and was pretty lazy the whole time. This resulted in making all the extreme pain in the longer leg stop! Because i didn’t walk as much as normal. I did get a cheap lift on Amazon. I’m trying to be aware of how i walk but definitely going to orthopedist who did both knee surgeries.
    @BoomerSpooner should I just get a new custom made leg at Home Depot?

  • I hope everyone’s troubles gently drift away.

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @silverdaktx That's frustrating, I'm sorry that's the case. I can't change how others act, but I know I wouldn't do that. If you want to book an online session I'll make sure you can be heard and I'll do my best at getting resources for you if needed and in my hands :3

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @SeraphineSnuggs I feel that in sooooo many levels, and I understand life sometimes isn't the nicest at teaching us things (sometimes things that help us grow hurt) and some other times it can feel like it's attacking you. The only piece of advice I can give you is when you're feeling like that do something that makes you happy and you love doing, reach out to friends and family, to remember that everything is temporary and also to keep positive (helps attract good things your way). Always remember life is not about the storms, it's about learning to dance as well in it as we do on a sunny day <3 :3

  • @carrieanne Hi and that sounds so painful to heal and have that happening.
    Not sure if you’d wanna talk to your doctor about possibly getting injections in the bottom of your foot in the part of your foot 🦶 that may be something that could be less evasive on your body and might work to even out your walking ability

    But the foot also has a lot of nerve endings in it.

    Had a few friends that I’ve had the injections in their foot beds because they’re always walking in heels and it works out quite well for them,
    but I’ve had a few that I’ve had a bad experience with that, so definitely talk to your podiatrist and foot doctor about that and see if it’s a possibility without more surgery.

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @DaveTheBrit I also have really bad social anxiety, I have vey few friends (3) and I honestly have been single for waaaaay longer than the time I haven't been for. The only way to get to the other side (social confidence) is through (just take a deep breath and go talk to that person you think you're too shy to talk to), you got this.

  • I’ve recently lost my bf (4/4/23) and miss him tremendously and I miss the cuddles, the talking and just hanging around a man. I’m lonely but I know I’m not ready for an actual relationship, so here I am.

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @quixotic_life I'm sorry to hear that . Most other species of animals tend to be our best and closest family members regardless of being so different from us and somehow find a way to understand, love, and support us in their own way. I'm sorry you had to let go such a sweet angel.

  • [Deleted User]persyprado (deleted user)

    @laneytruu My best piece of advice is spoil yourself and focus on self love/healing/growing/changing what you feel like needs change and you can easily attract a person who deserves you, treats you the way you love being treated, and respectful. And all that because you will only accept those who fit your standards when dating instead of settling for anyone. I'm sorry he left you, it can really feel like you're incomplete without a second half, but I promise you you are more than complete without dating. If you like crystals, I recommend you get Rose Quartz (do research on how to cleanse it and set an intention for it since everyone's way is different) to help you in the process and maybe when you are ready to date, you can set it to help you attract you're best other half...

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