PLEASE READ PROFILES WHEN CHOOSING CUDDLE PARTNERS

ashlyn83ashlyn83
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Hey guys. So I just wanted to put a reminder out there, please read profiles. They are there so you can learn a little more about a person (hopefully) before you arrange a cuddle session.

The reason I bring this up is because several times now I have had partners be surprised, confused, and even uncomfortable because they most likely didn’t read my profile before arranging a meet up.

For example, I had one who was shocked I am married (in my profile), and didn’t understand that my husband is aware that I am on this site. I had another client who ended up having an allergic reaction because he didn’t realize I had cats (also in my profile) and he ended up feeling miserable because he had allergies to cats and no allergy medication on hand.

Profiles are more than just a ‘hi how are you’. They are there for you to read. It may seem silly, but it honestly can save you (or someone else) unpleasant complications during a cuddle session by being uninformed and unprepared.

Enjoy your cuddles! 🥰

~Ashlyn

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  • RezzRezz

    I have been on hiatus for a little over 3 months. I'm only accepting previously seen clients until further notice. I have this spelled out very clearly at the top of my profile that I'm unavailable and to please reach out to another local pro.
    It didn't deter the nearly 20 requests I've received since, none of which are previously seen clients.
    🙄
    Now I either ignore their messages or give them homework. Read my profile.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    But, isn't this discriminatory against the illiterate?! Don't bother responding; I can't read.

  • BearBear

    Do usually when I talk to somebody it’s because I read their profile and it speaks to me or my intuition I should say. Especially since I’m allergic to cats I check for that also and whether or not they can host. Pictures me catch my eye, but I also have to get a sense about somebody more than just how they look.

  • ashlyn83ashlyn83

    @cylee1180 Cute 🤪 I’m sure literary software or a friend can help them out. 😜

  • MotorbabyMotorbaby

    @cylee1180 I know you're talking about my coworkers 😂😂

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle

    LOL, now that's funny @Motorbaby, lol.

    If some of us had a dime for every time someone obviously did not read our profiles we could afford to travel around the world.

  • AllAboutSoulAllAboutSoul

    @cylee1180 HA! that was great!

  • [Deleted User]Anne1 (deleted user)

    ♥

  • stormydaycuddlestormydaycuddle Mod

    @achetocuddle twice

  • cde123cde123

    @ashlyn83 One of the … interesting quirks of CC is that for pros, your relationship status and orientation are hidden on your profile. If you want this to be clear to enthusiasts, you'll need to write about it separately. I have no idea why.

  • Nature_Lover_Nature_Lover_

    @cde123 yes that is interesting..

  • pmvinespmvines

    People obviously aren't reading my profile because they always seem so surprised when they learn that I am a failure when it comes to using punctuation

  • WestsideMarcWestsideMarc
    edited August 2023

    It’s bad enough not to read someone’s profile before messaging them, but to not even do so before meeting is absurd. They get what they deserve.

    You’ve probably given the moderators a new field on the profile called Allergic to:

  • JasonCuddlesJasonCuddles

    I imagine the people who read posts on the forum are also the type to read profiles. The non-profile readers are likely never going to see this.

    At least that's my guess.

  • OhioMikeOhioMike
    edited August 2023

    @JasonCuddles 💯

  • achetocuddleachetocuddle
    edited August 2023

    So true. Some of the people who need to read this are probably typing "Wanna cuddle, beautiful?" instead. Ugh.

    @stormydaycuddle LOL.

  • KatotaKatota

    Reading profiles is fundamental!😁

  • TxTomTxTom

    I need to think of something to write on mine.

  • Minestrone101Minestrone101

    @ashlyn83 - Literary software? You are telling a blind man to see...

    @Motorbaby - lol 😅

    @AllAboutSoul - That's toxic ! Lol I need some avocado toast !

    @achetocuddle - I do declare.

  • SunsetSnugglesSunsetSnuggles

    I had so many people PMing asking to "book a session", that I made my very first sentence on my profile a clear statement about how I'm an enthusiast who doesn't book and charge like a Pro. Guess how many people still PM asking to book? 🥴

    @JasonCuddles Very astute.

    ~ Sunset Snuggles

  • JJoyfuldancerJJoyfuldancer

    The very first thing I look at when checking out a cuddler is to see if they filled out their profile...no profile = no interest

  • TheDave90TheDave90

    I wouldn't know whether someone would make a good partner if I didn't read the profile. So I always ALWAYS read through before anything else. Would expect the same from anyone else.

  • [Deleted User]MrAdmirer (deleted user)

    What seems like common sense has become a sad reality of being uncommon.

    Unfortunately the people who don’t read profiles are most likely not reading or lurking in the general forums either.

    I don’t get anyone messaging me, but I bet it must be exhausting dealing with that.

  • NadiacaresNadiacares

    omg this!!! like please read please!! it won’t take you more than 5 minutes

  • PositivefuturePositivefuture

    This is a sad reality of the modern internet. I do not understand why people don't read profiles but this is true on all sites, not just CC. What is also sad is that because so many don't read on a lot of sites when someone does have a profile it is the bare minimum....because they have come to realize that few people actually read. It is something of a negative feedback loop. I highly prefer when someone has a full profile and likely won't reach out to one that is sparse.

    I suppose the answer to the original poster is that it is a mix of the plague of people wanting instant gratification with little to no effort along with the decline of interpersonal communication.

  • Eileen_98144Eileen_98144

    I’m much more inclined to prioritize people who have clearly read my profile before contacting me. I am disheartened by the amount of messages I get that are a waste of both of our time, it makes me less pleasant in my responses when I can see someone hasn’t made that small effort to be respectful.

  • ashlyn83ashlyn83

    @cde123 Aah didn’t know that, thank you so much for the helpful tip! =^_^=

  • ashlyn83ashlyn83

    @JasonCuddles Likely you’re not wrong, but I am hoping at least the title is noticed by those who don’t read much beyond that. Fingers crossed!

  • ashlyn83ashlyn83

    @cylee1180 🤪 Lots of software available that will read the text out loud. Usually blind people already have this. 😜

  • ashlyn83ashlyn83

    @Positivefuture Very well said. It’s a shame because if people took that little bit of extra effort they could find some really great people on sites like these. I’ve made a couple friends since I joined and it’s been a lot of fun. =^_^=

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