Ok @Sooson ....by your logic someone like me shouldn't ever have to deal with predators. I don't have sexy pics on my profile and don't charge $200/ hr. Also, at appts I typically wear a t-shirt dress (with sleeves) and leggings....not sexual at all. So why do over 60% of my clients try something to some degree?
@RedFox16 You should really catch up on how [certain] cities handle crime and criminals. We are already there.
As far as clients assaulting , not blaming the victim. Not excusing the assault. But reality is...
And yes he deleted because he couldn't handle being bullied by you beautiful souls
Even sister skinny is shaking her had at you people..
Reported and reviewed. Modified comment due to politics. [Charlie_Bear]
@RedFox16 I love that burglar analogy.
I don't get what's so hard for people to understand.
This is 2023.
This isn't 1950.
This is a PLATONIC site.
End. Of. Story!
Judging by what I see on the forums, the mods probably have PTSD for what they have to witness.
@Mike403 I do not envy the Mods one bit when it comes to forums like this
@Sooson - Your cat is just watching a fly.
@Jova114 Yes sir!!! Well said 😊😊
@Sooson Thanks for debate ....that was brave of you since you were essentially taking leftover heat from another member who started it. I salute you....though I wish you would try to see things from a different human being's perspective. That would truly be braver of you. 😎😉
@Sooson So now sexual assault is a political thing? Lmao
@Jova114 I was responding to a comment about crime. Follow closer. And at least I don't open a new thread every 20 minutes. Also Peter Griffin eats that guy for breakfest.
@Mike403 you got me there. I bluffed big time
@RedFox16 I appreciate your comments.
Negative points for referring to women and folks that actually support them as "you people," and call them bullies. Why is it so difficult to not tell women what to do?
Another selective reader. Thank you. Next.
"Woke" is a political term. Let's not descend into politics here, it's not what the site is about.
@Sooson why are you even arguing about this to begin with ? It's weird and kinda creepy that you're arguing and defending the merits of to what degree of accountability each gender has when it comes to sexual assault and men not behaving. Stop pretending that it's a noble debate . Its not.
@Sooson "responding to comment about crime" Yes I follow that. The crime in question is sexual assault and you said blame it on the blue cities thus blaming sexual assault on a political party.
And now you're taking a shot at me why? That's automatically nullifies any point you WOULD have made, if you actually made one.
These stats are, I will grant you, from a few years ago (2020), but I think they are instructive in terms of blaming one faction or another for crime. These are the US metropolitan areas with the highest rates of rape per 100,000 population (per Statista):
1) Anchorage, AK 2) Rapid City, SD 3) Pueblo, CO 4) St. Joseph, MO 5) Carson City, NV 6) Jackson, MI 7) Farmington, NM 8) Jonesboro, AR 9) Danville, IL 10) Casper, WY
@WriterGF Wow, very surprising list
@stormydaycuddle - I had to look up the phrase "Netflix and chill". It had a literal meaning in the early days of Netflix... but thanks to the internet and people using the term in a more suggestive context, it changed the meaning over time. Now it's hard to invite somebody over to watch a movie without them thinking your intentions are something else.
What do you say if you actually want to watch Netflix and hang out lol?
@jplemmon - Probably "Want to come over and watch [specific movie or show]?"
well said @Deltron2000
@Mike403 That is exactly my personality, too. I just know that had I done such a thing, it would have been my ass on the chopping block. This lady gets no breaks. haha.... My actual thought was to respond and say, "that's all you got?"
@stormydaycuddle @WestsideyMarc .. STOP IT!!! Seriously? HAHA. Well, I will say this. It hasn't helped matters. I haven't had a cuddle in forever and it's killing me! Thank you for that info. I will definitely change that up. I thought that phrase was coined because Hulu and Chill sounds stupid!! lol. I don't even like Netflix. Thank you both.
Why is defending a twisted POV even a thing on a post where a woman was hurt? You were told, you were told why, the ego is bigger than quite a few other things apparently.
@Jova114 you are exaggerating, misleading, taking out of context and smearing but what else is new. also, you were the first to attack me. and with a cake. Next
@WriterGF just wanted to be clear is that my comments were regarding the tolerance of local authorities for crimes in general. that's all. and yes, I am aware it was off topic (but still in response to someone).
and lust but no leased: @pmvines It all started with me coming for the defense of someone who made a statement and then clearly stated that their intentions were good and just to help. but it was too late. he deleted himself because he couldn't handle all the love, tolerance and kindness that were thrown his way. he just couldn't handle the pressure and ran. he may as well be one of those people this community is so proud to be supportive of in general, not necessarily on this issue. but if you disagree with the clique, nothing else matters right? other comments I made were in response to others responses to him and me and yes somewhat derailed the conversation but I wouldn't even have bothered joining on the fun had I not noticed how yet again someone being attached by the same usual suspects like a swarm of hornets. not supporting the pigs and not blaming the victims. just stating a reality. and what has anyone else offered here to the women who struggle with advances? other than no one should do this, and no one should do that. yes, we know all that. but people here take out of contacts, twist words and then opine on your statement based on their interpretation of your intentions.
@SouthernDoll Your frustrations are not only yours. It is frustrating that adults can't seem to ACT LIKE ADULTS. It's insane. But, the sad fact of this all is we are putting ourselves out there and taking a huge risk (no not saying it makes it ok) and they know this. Those that are predatory are loving this shit. I don't know if you have ever heard it said that Psychos are Genius'? That's not a lie. Some people have that gift of leading you to believe you have NOTHING to fear/worry about. They are the kindest of souls, etc. Conniving. Cunning. It is tough to read a lot of these people. Especially when they have quite of bit of Karma that all basically say the same thing. I was so excited to have this particular cuddle because I honestly believed that I would be able to thoroughly enjoy it this time. HAHA. I feel like there is something about me (possibly a special, only seen by creeps, note on my forehead saying, "let's do this." (all before the netflix and chill.... haha oh my God!). And... I am going to say this... AT TOTAL RISK OF BEING REPORTED (but don't because it is true and kinda makes you think) ... I used to work as an adult webcam entertainer. Those sites take FAR MORE precaution with their clients (mind you it is all virtual) than they do here. And they are ON TOP of their game. You would think that there would be a lot more safety precautions since we are literally putting ourselves in their hands. I came here to get away from all that and be normal. Do something I can be "proud" of since I can't work right now. SMH. Don't get me wrong. Regardless of how they act (a little platonic never hurt anyone), for me, it's all been harmless human nature and I am pretty good at "changing subjects."
fixed it 🙂
Why can't people just take the concerns of others and learn from it instead of arguing? I don't believe anybody was attacking anyone. Being blunt? yes, but it seems to be required for some people to get it through their thick skull.
@Sooson Ok I'm the misleading one...riiiiiight Whatever helps you sleep at night
I'm taking this one down as it seems some people don't get how deeply cemented in rape culture the clothing argument is. Even if it wasn't their intent to go through that. I'd like them to research to maybe understand why it's not okay.