So after reading a lot of profiles, I appreciate to the degree I can as guy, how much ya'll put yourselves out there. Having a 20 year old daughter, my absolutely perfect everything, I worry every second of every day she is safe.
She told me about a guy she met, that initially she was ok around, but later gave her bad vibes. So I was thinking, and I said you know what, next time or any or every time, make a stop at the local Sheriff's office together. Walk up to a desk sgt or whomever, and tell them you two are on a blind date and this gentleman agreed to let you run his background so you, at a criminal level, to some degree, can at least not have to worry about that.
If the guy is hiding anything, he is not going anywhere near that. Yet if he does it, and at least at a criminal level he is clean, you have a little insight and yeah he may have just not gotten caught yet sure (Damn LifeTime Channel).
So literally a few minutes ago, I was talking with a cuddler and felt as though I needed to do something to contribute to her overall comfort level where I could.
So would a female cuddler find it something of value, if I offered to do the same, immediately when we met? Or is it something that is just way over the top?