So i live in Kingston Ontario Canada and i cant find anyone around me to be my cuddlecomfort any idaes?
Are you able to travel across the border? Not sure if you'll think the commute is worth it, but it looks like EMSqueen is a two-hour drive away from your location, and her asking price is very low, too.
Edit: But she doesn't appear to host.
Yea i can. I am going to look into it more thanks
Good luck !
Hello @Canadiancowboy and welcome!
My suggestion if you’re willing to travel is go to a place with a larger population like Toronto; you’ll have more opportunities there and more options. It’s easier to connect in a bigger city. It’s likely that you’ll get a low response rate when you reach out; try not to get discouraged. It can happen.
Have you decided to go with a pro? Cuddling with a pro is great but yes it’s a privilege that comes with a cost. If you do this and it is your first time make sure you pick one with lots of karma, is responsive when you reach out, and is enthusiastic about cuddling; that last one makes a big difference.
Whether you go with a pro or not your first message is important. Don’t just say, “hi.” Read their profile, find some thing you can relate to or a hobby or fandom that you like too and mention it in your message. Be yourself, be genuine, be interested.
Good luck, be respectful, follow all the cc guidelines plus the cuddler’s personal boundaries, have a strong sense of consent and I hope you find a cuddly cuddler!
any ideas?
Yes, do a training course in how to organise and run cuddle parties, and then run some.
(DO NOT attempt to run a cuddle workshop/party without proper training: it's dangerous.)
Thanks everyone you have help me alot.