@JohnR1972
Thank you.
I've had some amazing conversations with people I disagree with. In many cases I came to understand them better, even if I didn't come to agree with them or convince them to agree with me.
Even if I think someone is 99.97% wrong, the .03% is an opportunity for me to learn and grow.
Dear @Big_Green_23 In the interest of self-preservation and not always being able to think of what I'm trying to say I won't be able to go into this much. @CuddleDuncan could answer this and then I would probably realize it was the same way I think. I consider myself very intuitive. I am able to look at many profiles and decide (rightly or wrongly) which men probably see being a pro as a way to touch women more and get paid for it while they are at it. It's clear to me that some are not nurturing and don't really understand the concept of platonic cuddling and wouldn't be interested in learning about it. I feel it is just a lark or a joke to many. I appreciate your interest in this.
I'm a women who has payed for cuddles. Theres just lots on here wanting to cuddle women and Less wanting to cuddle men. Picture your driving into a city at a time everyone else wants to go.. your gona wait in traffic an have a hard time finding parking, where's if you are going in the opposite direction there's no traffic. So it's not really a men pay women don't kinda thing.
@JoyfulHeart I really relate to that and I wouldn't take anything for the things I've learned from people I don't like.
@JohnR1972 I don't joke around when it comes to poops. Nor do I take interwebs arguments personally. Or all that seriously. You can read into the things I say as you wish . You don't know my heart. Nor do you get to do tell me how and what to post. Which by the same token , nor do I get to do the same with you. You can have your opinions and I don't fault you for them. However I do not agree with you . That's not anything to take offense to . If i want to say that I don't like whiny incels then I will do so without seeking approval . And I won't be mad at you if you feel I shouldn't do that. However, I will still do it .
I'm still hoping for my first woman cuddle. 🥲
I've been told by multiple established cuddle buddies from this site that most female cuddlers "here" are only pros. The males who're pros even have a hard time finding women to cuddle, especially considering they're not allowed to contact fellow cuddlers if they're looking for payment. Personally, I don't understand why anyone would pay anyone to cuddle, but to each their own I guess!
Everyone pays in life, just a matter of the payment form that can differ.
@great_pillow08
I find it enheartening you acknowledge cuddling as something that should be free of charge. It's refreshing to think about genuine connections without involving payment. It emphasizes the value of sincerity in cuddling and adds a thoughtful, virtuous dimension.
There are a whole lot of comments here, way too many to read, so forgive me if this is redundant, but I can’t really imagine many women wanting to pay for this when there are such a tremendous amount of enthusiasts here, sans any money.
The only reason I can imagine is that the chances of a male pro trying to a push a boundary in comparison to that of an enthusiast are extremely low. That’s my guess.
@WestsideMarc - Any guy with a credit card can be a male pro. They are no checks to make sure they aren't going to push any boundaries. They are just as likely as an enthusiast.
My old fashioned stereotypical worldview is that women possess an innate ability to nurture, and men to provide. There are exceptions to everything, but this arrangement just seems to confirm that in my mind.
Let me even open another can of worms. Why (insert any number of reasons) do women earn less in the workforce and feel the need to supplement their income by doing this rather than just offer the free cuddles to whoever they see fit?
😅🫣 I’ll show myself out now. It’s been nice knowing some of you.