@JoyfulHeart I also don't feel a need to abide by the street code ... partially bc we are not on the streets.
Here is an example of how messages could be taken differently by people. I received this and i took it in a way that made me tell the guy there is a much better way to introduce yourself to a lady. I also let him not i am not a woman and be cautious of how you're talking to people in here. I didn't report it because i hoped to help the guy do better. He ended up being banned without my interference, i tried to warn him.
Also it ain't snitching if didn't participate in the bad behavior. It's just telling, sometimes you gotta tell. But i find it appalling when people participate or try to do things against the rules but then tell on the people that didn't want to do it with them, or no longer wanted to do whatever with them. That's (b)snitching.
I think there's a negative stereotype around men that turn down advances by women. I actually deleted my last account and got off this site because one such encounter. I didn't report her because in the end, nothing happened beyond unwanted touches. And who knows if she had turned around and tried to blame me for something. If it stayed on the site as a bad review, that's one thing, but if she was vindictive and tried to report me in real life, I'd probably be ruined even though an investigation would've cleared me.
Whoa, that last comment directed at Joyfulheart. Like what the actual... Hugs to the mods. GD.
@stormydaycuddle ‐ I'm hoping that means he doesn't subscibe to the "snitches get stitches" mentality and is aligned with @JoyfulHeart in his reasonings for reporting violations.
@quixotic_life I was reading comments between the threads. So I read when he told Joyful not to tag him on the other thread then this. I took it to mean he didn't care that joy was a mod. Because he didn't seem to...
@stormydaycuddle ~ Ah, I didn't connect them. Yeesh.
Well - the reason men don’t report is because they’re getting what they want, and if they’re not, they can’t report because what they wanted is probably against the terms of service.
I haven’t had anyone attempt to sell me something against the ToS yet, thankfully. I haven’t reported any sessions but I’ve definitely reported profiles and forum posts.